Should I carry on with wearing nappies when my GF isn't keen?

Diapersntights

Diapersntights

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I have a wonderful girlfriend, I told her early on that I love wearing tights and although she was a bit surprised, she went with me on that and we wear together on occasions. She was very quick to ask if I was gay and I told her truthfully no I'm not, but I do like the feel of cross dressing and the danger of it - she made me dress in front of her and has seen me as fully en femme as I go.

She accepted me and asked if there was anything else, so - beginning to trust her even more - I told her as well that I like wearing nappies and explained that I got into them (as it were) by watching porn of women squirting, which was mostly wetting and from there wetting clothes and diapers.

She wasn't impressed, we're of an age where we've both had parents with i/c issues, so that probably dominated her thoughts. Seeing she wasn't impressed I promised her I'd stop wearing nappies - I finished up the last couple that I had and have stuck to that for over a year because I promised and I love her.

More recently she asked if I watch porn and I admitted I do (circumstances mean we spend long periods apart), she asked what type I like and I admitted to watching pantyhose porn and adult diaper porn - she was surprised by the latter, I said I'd only given up wearing, not the interest.

Any advice on being able to find a middle ground (it's entirely possible the current circumstances are the middle ground), or talk her round, or am I mad to even contemplate risking it?!
 
Thank you, Moo - that's a sad, but informative, article. I'll certainly tread carefully, but there's some stuff in there I can use.
 
Mehrabad98 said:
I read the article. The wife sounds like a manipulative narcissist.
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I agree about that wife, but I'm not implying anything about Diapersntights's girlfriend.
My concern is that suppressing an important part of who you are, in order to please your partner, seems possibly unsustainable and a potential cause for unhappiness in the long term.
Ultimately, we only get so many years to live, and every year you hide who you are in order to please other people is a year you're not being true to yourself. You can never get that time back.
 
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This isn't a sustainable relationship. This isn't something you voluntarily choose.
 
She asking you to give up a part of yourself and if love you she will work with you so both are happy. Maybe she and you set up a little ground rules for diaper time or something not try make just stop.
 
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