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For the second time in about a year I had a doctor tell me I was “too young” for diapers. I don’t know why these comments frustrate me so much but you’d think doctors would have better bedside manners.
And I know it’s not a generational thing. The first time was an older dermatologist who was looking at a mole on my lower back, saw the diaper, and then said that. But the one I saw today for my annual physical was a medical resident filling in for my normal PCP who was out sick.
She referred me to a new urologist and nephrologist because I was “too young to be in diapers and they could help if the others couldn’t.” It’s weird because she was actually very nice, very helpful, and sounded like she will be a good and caring doctor but still made that comment.
Anyone else deal with these types of comments? Maybe not the “too young for for diapers” but other comments from doctors that irk you. And how did you respond? Because I know I failed the test both times if I should have made a comment back after hearing it.
And I know it’s not a generational thing. The first time was an older dermatologist who was looking at a mole on my lower back, saw the diaper, and then said that. But the one I saw today for my annual physical was a medical resident filling in for my normal PCP who was out sick.
She referred me to a new urologist and nephrologist because I was “too young to be in diapers and they could help if the others couldn’t.” It’s weird because she was actually very nice, very helpful, and sounded like she will be a good and caring doctor but still made that comment.
Anyone else deal with these types of comments? Maybe not the “too young for for diapers” but other comments from doctors that irk you. And how did you respond? Because I know I failed the test both times if I should have made a comment back after hearing it.