Question for DL Seniors

[vp39]

I'm 83, a lifelong plastic pants lover...and plastic lover in general. I'd still just as soon be wearing my plastic panties, and since I live alone now there seems little reason not to.

 

[Davvyboy]

As you get older, does your diaper love go away? Does all the thrill fade or are seniors just less addicted to tech and post less? Will the day come where wearing diapers is as boring as wearing a shirt?

It is an excellent question!
Looking through the many superb answers it has proved to me that the desire to wear nappies never truly fades.
As a 58 year old that doesn’t phase me.
However long I live I’ll always have a nappy or two to support me !

 

[PDIAPER215]

As you get older, does your diaper love go away? Does all the thrill fade or are seniors just less addicted to tech and post less? Will the day come where wearing diapers is as boring as wearing a shirt?

I'm 61 yrs old, I have been wearing diapers for over 40 yrs. It hasn't for me. I still enjoy them as much as ever.

 

[Lyric]

It is an excellent question!
Looking through the many superb answers it has proved to me that the desire to wear nappies never truly fades.
As a 58 year old that doesn’t phase me.
However long I live I’ll always have a nappy or two to support me !

I'm 77 now. I was in my mid 50's, around your age, when I decided to wear diapers most of time, or at least, whenever I wanted. Before then, I kept it secret from everyone, which meant I was unable to wear when I wanted, and was often frustrated. Once one makes the decision to wear diapers full time for pleasure rather than need, you have to open yourself up to others, wife, girlfriend, family members and others. That was the hardest thing for me to do, but the rewards outweighed the costs. I've had a compulsion to wear diapers for as long as I can remember, and the older I was the more I wanted to have diapers and rubber pants and wet myself.

 

[Davvyboy]

I'm 77 now. I was in my mid 50's, around your age, when I decided to wear diapers most of time, or at least, whenever I wanted. Before then, I kept it secret from everyone, which meant I was unable to wear when I wanted, and was often frustrated. Once one makes the decision to wear diapers full time for pleasure rather than need, you have to open yourself up to others, wife, girlfriend, family members and others. That was the hardest thing for me to do, but the rewards outweighed the costs. I've had a compulsion to wear diapers for as long as I can remember, and the older I was the more I wanted to have diapers and rubber pants and wet myself.

Good for you my friend.
That was a brave move.

 

[caitianx]

I feel grateful to be in diapers 24/7 at my age of 65, since I have been disabled since birth, Cerebral Palsy and Autism.
Wetting and messing uncontrollably 24/7 like a baby does not bother me.

 

[Davvyboy]

I feel grateful to be in diapers 24/7 at my age of 65, since I have been disabled since birth, Cerebral Palsy and Autism.
Wetting and messing uncontrollably 24/7 like a baby does not bother me.

Good for you Amigo.

 

[ARBO]

I’m 72. Been wearing disposable nappies and plastic pants at night on and off for 20 years. I started wearing more when I retired, as I had no need to get up so early, I was able to enjoy wearing a wet nappy in the morning. The desire goes occasionally but never longer than a few days. Wearing plastic pants is the icing on the cake, and I occasionally wear a pair with a pull-up during a winter’s day. My wife plays no part but is fully supportive and encouraging as it is a great stress reliever.

 

[reval]

While not a senior, I'm in my 40s, I've been in the ABDL world and managing incontinence issues for close to 30 years so I tihnk I have some perspective to share. My experience is that they take on a different role. It was once described on the Love in Brief Podcast that diapers went from being like Viagra to more like Prozac the older I got. And that is something I think really is true.

Hey, that's me! I said that!

 

[Lyric]

Good for you my friend.
That was a brave move.

Good, but necessary for my mental health.

 

[Diaperman95]

I didn't start wearing until I turned 62. In fact until my wife needed them I hadn't thought about them for myself after she died.

Very sorry for your loss

 

[babyp]

...I've been a DL since my teens, was a bedwetter but was never forced to be in diapers even though secretly I wanted to be. Stopped around age 13, but still interested in diapers. Put my diaper wearing on hiatus for a few decades as I became an instant father when I married my wife 35yrs ago and she had a 5.5yr old girl, so definitely did not wear around her even though my wife knew of my diaper "interests". Started wearing cloth diapers around age 57 nearly full time, will wet here and there, never #2. Am 62 now, just lost 33lbs since Xmas over the last 7mos and bicycle around 120-160 miles per week. Wife also not thrilled about it, but she has her "things" and diapers are one of my "things". She has nothing to do with my diapers and I don't flaunt them in front of her. She knows I wear almost all the time, I'll just have on pj bottoms or sweatpants on over the diapers when home. Outside the home, I'll have them on under jeans. Also not into any "baby stuff".

 

[Tigercub59]

Very sorry for your loss

Thank you

 

[PaddedMI]

Hey, that's me! I said that!

You sir, are a smart man.

 

[Subtlerustle]

Hey, that's me! I said that!

Possibly the best metaphor ever. I used it when explaining to my wife and it really helped her understand the evolution of my interest. She can tell when I’m wearing or in need of wearing my Prozac.

 

[ianwee]

I qualify as a 'mature member' too, and still enjoy all aspects of wearing and wetting diapers and clothing, mostly in private though occasionally outdoors when I feel very daring!

 

[PeterPPeevy]

As you get older, does your diaper love go away? Does all the thrill fade or are seniors just less addicted to tech and post less? Will the day come where wearing diapers is as boring as wearing a shirt?

The question isn‘t specifically for me, because I only wear diapers as a last resort, i.e. when I gotta go but “going” in my panties and pants would be verboten. But I do love —love, LOVE, LOVE! — using almost anything but a toilet or urinal to relieve myself.

I’ve been “this way” since puberty in the mid 1950s, and my desires have only grown as I’ve aged. The best thing about retirement is that I’ve had more opportunities than ever before to wet and poop in my pants.

I do worry that my desires may continue to increase until they become a problem for me and my wife (who is vanilla but knows about and accepts my fetishes as normal for me. I know a guy who is in a gay relationship but began to poop in his pants at will — his will — and refused to clean up or at least did so only so tardilly. He had to be moved into an extended care facility. I’m not that obsessive, and hope never to be.

 

[reval]

Possibly the best metaphor ever. I used it when explaining to my wife and it really helped her understand the evolution of my interest. She can tell when I’m wearing or in need of wearing my Prozac.

Hey, that's terrific. Glad I could help.

 

[PeterPPeevy]

Maybe more infrequent at 72, but when I do, I think "this is great, why aren't I doing this more often." Off and on since age 6, long periods of abstinence until early 50's. Then much more exploration. Internet opened the interest wide open in early 2000's with DiaperSpace until it got too hard to get on and the best people left, old Diapermates which also had a lot of good people and then got overrun by questionable people(?), fake profiles, bots, Russian operatives (Putinesque?), scammers. Creepy adult bookstores with diaper related articles and forums as far back as the 70's and 80's, one's entry was a measure of your strong interest if willing to let the biker cashier see your copy of diaper news and watch his eyebrows hit his hairline, as people in line with really hardcore porn looked at you like you're a pervert(!?!). Worse than buying diapers in a pharmacy with a line behind you and the cashier has to call for the price. This interest tends to stick!

The internet just reflects the world as it is, and, like the world, it seems to be getting worse every day. At least has served me well in terms of my fetishes. I well remember the first poop porn I saw.

I was about 45 years old, and had been “practicing” my fetishes alone and in complete ignorance since puberty. There seemed to be only one explanation for the pleasure I felt when I peed and pooped in my pants: I was certifiably insane as well as being the only person on earth who did that. And then one day, not long after images started appearing on my computer, I saw a series of colour photos taken at a poop party in an apartment in Vancouver. It was an orgy! The furniture and the floor were protected with plastic sheeting and liberally decorated with turds, pools and splatters of pee, and smeared with poop like the five or six guys participating. It seemed, if I could trust my eyes, that I wasn’t the only person in the world who “did that,” and that, perhaps, I wasn’t insane, just…odd?

Those photos didn’t “cure” my shame about my own fetishes, or stop me from enjoying them, but they showed me for the first time in my life that I was part of a community, Twenty years and hundreds of wet, poopy pants later, a psychologist confirmed my growing belief, or more accurately my hope, that I was as normal as the next guy, who may well have been wearing panties and planning to soak and poop in them right after giving his benediction to his parishioners, writing a prescription for the last patient he would see for that day, or waiting for the last of his teammates to leave the locker room After the game.

Adisc.org is the best venue I have encountered in terms of the community it has created. I wish it allowed the posting of x-rated images, videos, and fictional or true erotic stories, but that’s probably what makes it a safe, comfortable place to be. i had a really bad experience on a website called “The Experience Project,” where I enjoyed erotic and pornographic pictures, stories, and discussions with intelligent, kinky people. Then one day the site’s managers deleted all sexual threads and images, even ones you could have shown to a Sunday school class without fear of reprisal. Their reason? They would no longer allow “titillating” discussions or images.

 

[DiaperedJeff]

I’m 75 and have been interested in cloth diapers and plastic pants since I was 6 years old. Finally got rid of my underwear (panties) and wear 24/7 now. Wet at night but not in the daytime. Wearing diapers and plastic pants helps keep me calm.