Question for DL Seniors

[Karoq]

For me, like the majority here, the DL desire has not gone away over the five decades plus of wanting to be back in nappies and plastic pants. Self-acceptance has grown over time. Buying over the counter products is less scary than it was as a youngster or in my 20s. The internet made so many things so much easier. What has reduced a bit is the sexual urges that often went with wearing in my youth. And that refractory period can be an awful lot longer than it once was.
Sometimes it is the other way around - what would I have been up to if I had had the internet in the 1970s/1980s? Would I have been brave enough to meet others or even to post pictures and writings online?

I could have written that. It sums up my feelings exactly. I was in nappies very late as a child due to wetting at night until teens and having a very strict father but a loving grandma who just dealt with my issue with love. As a young adult I always felt drawn back to nappies and would often wear one just for the incredible feelings it gave me. Then, as my bladder control worsened again in my 40’s, tied in with spinal disc issues and surgery, I started having to wear again at nighttime and have been back in nappies every night for last 20 years. It’s a necessity but deep down I also enjoy wearing. It defies logic why a fit, healthy, professional man with kids and grandkids gets such a feeling of comfort from being back in nappies and plastic pants and deliberately wetting himself but to me it’s better than drinking or any other way of getting a high.

Right now, at 11am, my wife has gone out and I’ve put a Tenaslip on with my velcro fastening cloth Snuggleblanks nappy over the top, finished off with Kins lightweight plastic pants. I know I. can wear this combination for hours and let go safe I will have no leaks but feeling very relaxed and secretly turned on.

I’m not AB in terms of wanting to try all the other babyish products such as bottles or baby clothes but love a nappy on and do feel a sense of being little and care free. I have tried an adult pacifier which was soothing though and I do at times still suck my thumb in my sleep - my wife has told me that. She accepts I need nappies at night and is tactile and loving towards me when wearing saying she’d rather have me nappies and secure for bed than dealing with accidents . She also encourages me to wear a disposable in situations such as long journeys or where I can’t get to loo quickly in daytime as I have had occasional “wet pants” accidents as an adult due to my overactve small bladder / lack of feeling as a result of my spinal surgery and stress.

 

[DiaperedJeff]

I’m 75 and have loved cloth diapers and plastic pants my entire life. Wife accepts it, but is not thrilled. Wear 24/7 and wet at night.

 

[NappyLoverUK]

Just turned 60 and have been wearing when the opportunity presents for as long as I can remember. Still no sign of getting fed up. I still like the secrecy of buying, stashing and wearing without anyone except this site knowing. I still love the thrill of unfolding a nappy and feel it. It never goes away.

 

[Pampersmademe]

I am 51 and have been a DL since I was 5. Just always wanted to be put back in diapers. As others have said, with age comes self-acceptance. I’m happily married and am in my thick night time diapers every night. My wife is supportive and knows how much I love to be diapered. I don’t wear to work or during the day unless I’m traveling or feel comfortable that I won’t run into anyone I know. I almost always fly diapered (which is several times a month). I don’t have a medical need but they bring me comfort and I sure do love not having to get out of bed at nights! I accept and embrace this part of my life more than I ever have; it is part of who I am. I don’t see that ever changing.

 

[flybaby]

Well, at 57 I don’t really yet think of myself as a senior, except when considering my diaper needs. I didn’t think about diapers or try them until my mid forties, but once I became awawre that adult diapers were something I needed to try, and did, I loved them from the get go.

So, all the emotions, thrills, and positive feeling associated with diaper use still exist, what has changed, as I get older, is the ever increasing need to wear a diaper and properly use it when needed. I chuckle when I think back to “sneaking” a diaper and locking the bathroom door to wet it even while living alone, to becoming a confidently 24/7 diapered adult. While I have some OAB issues, I could get by most of the time without being diapered, but for comfort and convenience choose to live my life like I’m totally IC.

My story sounds so similar to yours. Although I am not 24/7, But I do enjoy wearing often, especially in bed.

 

[Deleted member 69538]

So nice to be in such great company. I hit 40 this year, and I’m just discovering my DL interests - taking time on work trips to play with being padded. I can’t see the interest diminishing any time soon!

 

[ribbit]

I'm young, but thank you to all the older people who have shared their opinions! Knowing that for most people it doesn't go away helps me to feel better for accepting this as a part of myself.

 

[Nam Repaid]

I'll be 64 tomorrow, celebrating 60-something years of fascination with diapers. My earliest such memory is from age 4 watching my friend's sister being changed, first makeshift at 7, first baby disposables at 25 and adult cloth and disposables in my early 30s. I have experienced the usual binge-purge cycles and years of avoiding them due to long term live-in relationships. I plan on enjoying diapers for as long as I may live!

 

[Chrissie]

68 and still love my nappies and never tire of using them or indeed just going in my knickers

 

[ribbit]

I'll be 64 tomorrow, celebrating 60-something years of fascination with diapers. My earliest such memory is from age 4 watching my friend's sister being changed, first makeshift at 7, first baby disposables at 25 and adult cloth and disposables in my early 30s. I have experienced the usual binge-purge cycles and years of avoiding them due to long term live-in relationships. I plan on enjoying diapers for as long as I may live!

Happy birthday! Hopefully you've enjoyed the day safely padded in a diaper!

 

[Lattimore55]

As you get older, does your diaper love go away? Does all the thrill fade or are seniors just less addicted to tech and post less? Will the day come where wearing diapers is as boring as wearing a shirt?

Maybe more infrequent at 72, but when I do, I think "this is great, why aren't I doing this more often." Off and on since age 6, long periods of abstinence until early 50's. Then much more exploration. Internet opened the interest wide open in early 2000's with DiaperSpace until it got too hard to get on and the best people left, old Diapermates which also had a lot of good people and then got overrun by questionable people(?), fake profiles, bots, Russian operatives (Putinesque?), scammers. Creepy adult bookstores with diaper related articles and forums as far back as the 70's and 80's, one's entry was a measure of your strong interest if willing to let the biker cashier see your copy of diaper news and watch his eyebrows hit his hairline, as people in line with really hardcore porn looked at you like you're a pervert(!?!). Worse than buying diapers in a pharmacy with a line behind you and the cashier has to call for the price. This interest tends to stick!

 

[Straycatz]

Just turned 64 and I am enjoying my diapers and other "little" things more than ever. I know in my heart that this is never going to go away and I embrace that.

Will be looking to spend even more time in diapers when I retire from work.

My Wife is OK with all this and even helps me shop for diapers and clothing, but draws the line at changing me, which I understand.

 

[Nam Repaid]

Happy birthday! Hopefully you've enjoyed the day safely padded in a diaper!

Thanks! Diapers have handled all my "business" for the last 24 hours with 12 more to go. As to safely I took on a few injuries repairing a trailer today, nothing serious thankfully.

 

[PaddedRita]

Well, at 57 I don’t really yet think of myself as a senior, except when considering my diaper needs. I didn’t think about diapers or try them until my mid forties, but once I became awawre that adult diapers were something I needed to try, and did, I loved them from the get go.

So, all the emotions, thrills, and positive feeling associated with diaper use still exist, what has changed, as I get older, is the ever increasing need to wear a diaper and properly use it when needed. I chuckle when I think back to “sneaking” a diaper and locking the bathroom door to wet it even while living alone, to becoming a confidently 24/7 diapered adult. While I have some OAB issues, I could get by most of the time without being diapered, but for comfort and convenience choose to live my life like I’m totally IC.

Hi YA Kellycares

That so right , age is just a plan old number ! It deep down inside that counts !!!
Good for you on emotions, thrills and the positive feeling associated with wearing diaper !

 

[Davvyboy]

As you get older, does your diaper love go away? Does all the thrill fade or .are seniors just less addicted to tech and post less? Will the day come where wearing diapers is as boring as wearing a shirt?

No, the desire gets stronger.
It is hardwired into us and never goes away.
I suspect I’ll be cremated in a nappy !!

 

[Davvyboy]

No, the desire gets stronger.
It is hardwired into us and never goes away.
I suspect I’ll be cremated in a nappy !!

….. a dry one by that stage..?!

 

[Davvyboy]

I'm 47--not exactly a senior, but speeding in that direction like everybody else. My feelings of littleness and my desire to be in diapers are as a strong as they've ever been. If they ever fade, I've got plenty of hobbies to fill the gap. And if I suddenly find myself with a medical need for diapers, well... Perhaps I'll be better off for having practiced.

I’ve got a few jigsaws you can have if the desire ever fades….

 

[Davvyboy]

DL from my first memory and still get the padded thrill as I march (well more a slow ramble) towards my 60th birthday
I’d agree that my wearing increased the older I became but that wasn’t just down to desire, it’s also because I have a partner who takes part and just the two of us living in our cottage.

Perfect !!

 

[littlemoosey]

62 here. I can't even remember the last time I slept without a diaper.

I would say it gets stronger. I was a DL from early teens until 45, then slowly turned AB/DL after that. Somewhere around 50, my inner baby came out. Now, along with my diaper, I can't do without a pacifier and onesie for bed. My wife just bought me some new Onesies! (30% sale at ODU).

Part of why it got stronger as I got older was because I just stopped seeing it as a flaw.

I really think that is one of the best things that I have ever read, “I just stopped seeing it as a flaw“.

Despite my wonderful acceptance, I still go through bouts of self-doubt. But thanks to you, I I have a new way to think about it

 

[Davvyboy]

I really think that is one of the best things that I have ever read, “I just stopped seeing it as a flaw“.

Despite my wonderful acceptance, I still go through bouts of self-doubt. But thanks to you, I I have a new way to think about it

We all go through periods of anxiety and self doubt.
It is rather unusual what we do but it is nothing sordid and doesn’t involve anyone else… ( unless you have partner that changes you ?!!….,..there will be a lucky few here that have that bliss !!)