Nappies autisum and anxiety!

[babybenji]

I’m passionate about being abdl/ little toddler also a proud adhd autistic toddler. It’s not a question but a fact. Big hugs tho the the community.

 

[babybenji]

Night all, teddy hugs and happy nappy tidings. Thanks everyone, may all have a great day/night depending on geography m,

 

[Deleted member 56273]

Night all thanks for all of your support happy nappy dreams all

 

[Joeysms]

me today lol

yes i think that would be just fine.

 

[Joeysms]

Thank you Joesyms. Your right about meds being deabilliitaing. Some one told me once uoh have to be your own doctor m, so I’ve self prescribed nappies

it never hurts to ask questions of your doctor especially when it comes to medication. your thoughts and concerns should be taken in to account and addressed. when it comes to mental health your relationship with your medical professionals is long term so you need to take your time finding the right one. it is a close relationship build on trust with a give and take

 

[Joeysms]

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When at home in nappies anxiety is little or none, or sporadic. Meds are there to cope with outside life, it’s not ideal taking them but it helps me function going out into real world. I’ve accepted being an ab / toddler dl for 20 plus years and will always embrace that part if myself. We are who we are and all should be proud and happy with it . I know it’s not always easy, keep calm and nappy on

i agree it isn't easy. out and about around people can be very challenging. i accept who i am and embrace it also don't care what others think of me. my daughter told me she loves that about me i live my life to be happy regardless of others think. i am lucky i learned i can walk away from overwhelming situations take a break allow myself to become at easy again before rejoining.

 

[babybenji]

That’s a lovely thing your daughter said. That is a great process you have, walking away from overwhelming situations as d taking a break. Coping strategies are a must.

 

[babybenji]

it never hurts to ask questions of your doctor especially when it comes to medication. your thoughts and concerns should be taken in to account and addressed. when it comes to mental health your relationship with your medical professionals is long term so you need to take your time finding the right one. it is a close relationship build on trust with a give and take

I have a good relationship with doctors, take medication. For bipolar adhd. There is so little help for asd, lack of specialists. I can’t talk to the medical profession about ab abdl life, this community is we’re I have a voice, thanks for your thoughts,

 

[babybenji]

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Love to see tweetybird at peace,

 

[babybenji]

I feel good and calmer just looking at tweety bird, peacefuly sleeping without a care in the world. It has put a big smile on my face.

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

Night all, teddy hugs and happy nappy tidings. Thanks everyone, may all have a great day/night depending on geography m,

Hope ya had Sweet Diaper Dreams...and a Wet-Diaper Wakey!

 

[babybenji]

Hope ya had Sweet Diaper Dreams...and a Wet-Diaper Wakey!

Wet diaper, and awake, fresh diaper niw on and coffee ready for a new day. Nappy tidings yo all

 

[babybenji]

I started this thread October 1o thank fir all contributions so i

 

[babybenji]

it’s been very much an epiphany to me, i really want to push diehard to being supportive of those that have autism adhd. Find nappies calming. I think this thread has shed light on the fact on the forums it still is tentative about people being able to open up and reach out about disability’s. Have learned if it is talked about more feel safe and comfortable doing so

 

[babybenji]

As a result of everyone’s feedback m, which has included adhd , bipolar, autism, anxiety m, incontinence m and other disabilities I have created a support page under. General topic. As it is there Defoe all community not just one forum but for all forums thank you all

 

[babybenji]

This has been the mist important thread I have done m. It means s lit to me as I am a champion of disability groups m, which I fall into m. With bipolar, adhd anxiety and autism. Ab dl life had brought great comfort to me m. Also had a lot of help and support from the community across all the forums which iam grateful for so big thanks to ADISC community. Here’s to diversity 🕊🕊 big teddy hugs everyone

 

[Deleted member 56273]

Ab dl life had brought great comfort to me

 

[babybenji]

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[Sidewinder]

Diapers and the associated fluffyness of infanthood is the earliest feelings and memory of us. It is a familiar - something that gives comfort where none existed - something that the newborn sensed as the world as opposed to the womb. The diaper, be it wet or dry, entices the mind of that warm glow and one of the first feelings a baby encounters - one of the feelings that every other feeling is measured against.

It is not unusual that such a sensual object means that much to us, be we AB / DL or whatever label one choses to identify us by. Add to this, the smell of baby powder, plus the crinkle noise of the diaper, plus the feel of a plushie - these are what taught us to recognise and enjoy the world around us.

The human mind, when it has a problem, will search its history to find a solution. Stress and interaction with others are a problem to some due to inability to sort out the immense amount of information hitting us - via eyes, ears, nose, fingers, all over the body, tounge etc. The mind, to handle this, searches in its depths for a solution going back second by second of every interaction we ever encountered. When the mind gets young enough, it can switch off ears and eyes which reduces the amount of information it is being attacked with. This is where all one 'feels' is the diaper and the relevant feelings and emotions of infancy, where the diaper cradles the person, the diaper also acts as like a hand supporting the wearer. This is also where one can just focus on one or two feelings and emotions and where the mind is clear to enjoy it's surroundings.

This is why, if you have any of the range of mental differences as mentioned in earlier posts, regression to early childhood is so refreshing and comforting. It is also why most people when they go into their little side, that they also seek that clearance of thought and emotions.

I really like the way you put this.

 

[Sidewinder]

To quote Kung Fu Panda's Shifu: If you only do what you can do, then you will never be more that you are now

I've never seen that film, but I like this quotation.

Similarily enough, there's a line from the first Back To The Future film that goes: "If you can put your mind to it, you can accomplish anything."