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I'm gay, abdl but not what u think when u think gay..JacksonLiv said:Hi all,
I was just wondering how you dudes out there get over the shame of not being "manly" with this kink. I feel like I have like the most emasculating set of kinks. Obviously, ABDL is my primary kink, but I've also experimented with other kinks, such as chastity, sissification, and cuckolding in past relationships.
Obviously, I enjoy indulging my kinks, even as far as going 24/7 in diapers and chastity since the beginning of this school semester. Outside of kink, I feel very like I'm very successful, double majoring in Computer Science and Cybersecurity, having a internship with a Pentesting company, and having a few certifications. But at the same time, I feel a sense of shame that I'm not as "manly" or like I won't be desirable to date because of this. How do you all deal with this?
I consider myself pretty masculine I consider abdl a pretty vulnerable thing I'm rough around the edges irl
I drink, ride motorcycles shoot guns hike camp i even work security all the manly things but I guess for me abdl is idk a sensitive thing never thought myself a sensitive person,
I take it your probably straight. Been there done that...
I have a very close friend who told me it's OK to be vulnerable sensitive and still be manly
Most women like sensitive men that can protect then women want to feel safe and protected.
At least that's what I've always been lead to believe. I guess take man and women out of it and just say partner...
A partner wants to feel safe protected and loved..
I know I do.. and I'm a man who does all the opposite when u think gay dude..
For me I always think it's ok to feel this way it doesn't make u any less a man...
If you know your strong and masculine and that's what u say,,, then that's all that matters...
Hope this helped u.