How to get over the shame of not being "manly" with this kinks

[HoneySnow]

Are there any "bedroom sissies" out there? I define a bedroom sissy as an outwardly masculine male, in the conventional sense who becomes passive and effeminate when in private with a woman or another man. In my conception, he is not just pretending to "be a man" in public; he is one. But in when relating in private...that's another matter.

There are lots of men who become VERY submissive and often feminine in the privacy of their bedroom. Many men fantasize about a women being in control and taking charge in private, weather they all admit it or not

 

[dlissexy]

If men can be subdominant too, then in what way is it unmanly?

 

[BuddyBoy]

There are lots of men who become VERY submissive and often feminine in the privacy of their bedroom. Many men fantasize about a women being in control and taking charge in private, weather they all admit it or not

I think you are "right on" with that one, Honey Snow.