gobphus
Est. Contributor
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- Diaper Lover
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- I like meeting new people and being with old friends. I have a quick wit and enjoy making people laugh with a surprising juxtaposition of thoughts. Sometimes my foot ends up in my mouth. Privacy has always been a concern of mine since I began interacting with people online in 2011. My username everywhere is the same: one of my initials plus a play on the verb "obfuscate," meaning "to make obscure." It's an ugly name, but now I'm stuck with it. Since I retired as a software engineer, I can't lose my job if I'm outed as a DL, but I still have concerns about friends and family finding out about my underwear of choice.
- As a very late bedwetter, I've always been fascinated by wetters and wetting. Funny thing, as a bedwetter I needed diapers but didn't wear them, so I really did wet my actual bed. So shameful! Dry by 24, I didn't need diapers and never thought about them. One day I read on WetSet about adults who wore diapers for fun. I realized that I very much wanted to wear diapers too, even though I still didn't need them. Now, because of frequently wearing and wetting diapers, I need them. Go figure. Anyway, I now wear a diaper with plastic pants to bed every night and hope that I will wet myself involuntarily during the night. What used to be a shameful experience is now a delightful surprise. With a booster in place, I like to wear my soft, warm, wet, swollen overnight diaper well into the next day -- which as a retired man I can do. I embrace diaper wearing and wetting as a way to counter the shame that I felt as a young bedwetter. I defy whatever shame is left in me for being a young person who half woke up and inexplicably thought it was okay to wet his bed and who then enjoyed the hot wetness spreading beneath him.
- My main interests are politics from a liberal perspective, classical music, science, baseball, good movies, and ethnic food. I have written a novel. Making puns is my specialty.
- I enjoy reading and talking about the above interests, as well as sharing thoughts and feelings about wetting, especially bedwetting, with other people. Talking about many of these things can lead to conflict or trigger difficult emotions. This is especially true in politics and religion, so I try to avoid many of my deepest concerns. What topics are left? Mahler versus Bruckner? Yankees versus Mets? Indian food versus Thai food? So let me try some questions relating to that which must not be mentioned post question 1. How do people deal with shame? How did people discover our common pleasure? What brands do people prefer? Do people tell partners, friends, or family members about their deepest desires? Do we have a hobby or an addiction? I hope that some of these questions will be dealt with in the forums, if not in direct exchanges.
