It sounds like you need different diapers. If you dont mind me asking what do you use? I havent messed in public, but I am an EMT and we are based near an elderly home so I have extensive experience with things of unexpected nature.
Honestly dont listen to people like that. They are often too caught up in their own BS that the only way to make themselves feel better is to put others down. Your health and wellbeing comes first, and if you need diapers to maintain a healthy and active lifestyle there is absolutely no shame in it whatsoever.
Chin up, you got this.
Thanks man, I have fpdiffeebpnt ones for different times. At night I’ll we a north shore nmeganax thu come in navy. blue., arbena , tranquility all through the night with a water proof diaper cover.
Durring the day I use prevail air ax size. Small. They fit tighter so they show then wear some boxer briefs over them. I guess I should wear the medium but I‘m always worried someone can see them. I try to wear dark baggy shorts. I just hate using my diaper in public where people will know.
At home I’ll just wear briefs but that may change. It’s been 3 years, if doesn’t seem to be getping better.
*hugs*