Diaperboy27
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Just let it be & give him some space on that matter just talk about other stuff in your lives that you agree on see how well it goes. If you guys don’t talk about it again then it should be smooth sailing.ABDElsa said:For the first time ever I recorded myself wetting and messing my Diaper to post on my JustForFans. Then I had it post the link to Twitter...or so I thought. Turns out instead of the usual link and a blurred image it showed 4 seconds of the video! So, it actually showed me with the backside of my Diaper pointing at the phone camera ready to mess my Diaper before the 4-seconds ended! It said watch the rest on JFF. I didn't want the video on Twitter! Just the link.
So, going forward I'm not going to be telling it to post to Twitter when it comes to videos, but pictures are fine as they're blurred, because what happened next was a disaster! My friend calls me up and these were his exact words..."please don't tell me you piss and shit in your Diaper! I understand the whole wanting to dress and act like a Baby thing, but you are a grown-ass man! There's no reason for you to be pissing and shitting in your Diaper! I saw that shit, and there wasn't even a warning on this one! I was like "no, don't tell me he actually recorded himself pissing and shitting his Diaper!"
I didn't know what he meant by "no warning" and that "he saw it!" So, I went to Twitter and that's when I saw the 4-second clip that got posted! So, I deleted it immediately and will not share videos from JFF to Twitter since they will be 4-second clips. I was so embarrassed and apologized to him. I told sorry he had to see that, and that it wouldn't happen again. He asked me why I would do that? He didn't think I actually wet/mess my Diapers. I told him "well I mean that's what they're for that's their whole purpose!"
I told him he's welcome to unfollow me on Twitter because I warned him there's probably gonna be a lot of ABDL content on my Twitter now. I told him it unintentionally happened that way but that was mostly what I used it for, and 90% of my followers are ABDL so, I was never gonna become an influencer or anything like that. None of my non-ABDL followers seemed to care, they still followed me anyway. I even made a thread saying I was ABDL and proud! If they didn't care why should I? I wasn't gonna apologize for being an ABDL it's part of who I am and I've become much more accepting of myself and more open about it. If people don't like it they can block/unfollow me.
I don't have a lot of non-ABDL followers anyway so, it doesn't even matter. I even have a warning in my description for people who wanna follow that aren't ABDL, if any. Even going as far as to add a Baby Bottle and Diaper Pin emoji to the end of my Twitter handle so, if anyone is curious about that, they can click on my page and read the description. So far no one has said anything about the bottle or pin or treated me any different. People really don't care. Which is great because that's how we work towards a more ABDL accepting world! But anyway I'm getting off-topic.
The point is there's now A LOT of ABDL Tweets and Retweets on my Twitter and I told my friend if he's uncomfortable with that he's welcome to unfollow me. We didn't say much after that and just said bye and hung up. I was hoping we can just forget about it and just get back to normal. I was so embarrassed and worried last night because I didn't know what today would bring. I kept thinking like "is this the end of our friendship? Is he not gonna be able to handle this? Is he not gonna wanna talk to me for awhile? Is he gonna treat me any different now?" These questions and more were all going through my head last night making it hard to sleep. Tankfully we talked twice today like nothing happened so he must've gotten over it. Things seem fine now and I think our friendship has still survived.
I still wouldn't mind sone advice on how I can deal with this going forward though. So, how did you deal with something like this ADISC community? I'm sure a great deal of you have had people in your life not only discovering you were ABDL but that you wet and/or mess your Diapers. So, how did that go? Were they OK with it? Were they not OK with it? Did they think it was gross? Did they tell you shouldn't be doing this? Let me know all your stories and experiences in the comments down below and maybe I can apply some of that knowledge on how deal with this myself. Or do you think I even need to deal with it at all? Should I just continue to let it be swept under the rug like it never happened, not worry about it, move on and only bring it up again if he brings it up again? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks and as always...stay Diapered!
-ABDElsa