Hi folks, do any other men here womens pads for their incontinence? I am a man and started out in my teens being a fetish for menstruation and pads growing up with my 2 sisters. That has lasted all my life. A number of tears ago convinced my wife that I needed to wear depend Shields for my little leakage. This incontinence turned into urge incontinence requiring me to wear the depend Guards. Then tried the TENA brand of mens pads. This was both helping with my problem and my fetish interests. My wife is aware of my fetish and reluctantly accepts me wearing pads. A number of months ago she received a coupon in the mail for the Womens Tena Intimate pads. She herself uses Poise products for her slight incontinence. I asked her if she wanted the Tena to try and she said no she likes the poise. I then told her well I am going to try them then. She answered those are for women and I replied pads are pads. I bought them and found them to be cooler to wear vs the depend guards and as they are longer they suite my needs for my incontinence better. I do not wear at night, but all other times and usualy change 1 a day. This is a true story and not a fantasy. Any other guys wear ladies pads?