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Alright, so I don't understand. I see people using the word "Babyfur" and "ABDL" interchangeably, and it really irritates me. Babyfur means having a baby/toddler character/fursona, ABDL is where you have a diaper fetish. I don't understand why everyone assumes that all Babyfurs are sexually inclined to diapers, just because that is a similarity to baby characters. Personally, I use age regression in real life as a way to cope, and so to portray that part of me I made a secondary fursona that is the age I regress to. In NO WAY is my age regression sexual, and in NO WAY do I sexualize my secondary fursona. But that's the thing, furries will see the word 'babyfur' and just instantly assume that means you are into diapers sexually.
I truly don't understand because furries have been harassed over the years and their response is always "Well, some of the fandom is cringe, but not all of it!" even when a majority of the furry fandom is iffy, but that doesn't stop furries and they are always talking about how they don't like hating people for no reason, etc etc. But then the second the word babyfur is mentioned they say all babyfurs are pedophiles, into pissing, and shitting, and all of this stuff that in NO WAY is directly relating to the word. That's like me saying "All furries are zoo's", but that's just not true.
For a community, that talks about acceptance and all, they sure don't bother to accept anything that looks kind of weird to them. I've been talking on this site for a while, and all of you are so nice and have helped me through tough things that I couldn't talk to people outside of here about, and it makes me so angry when people start shitting on all babyfurs just for existing, and make up all of these "wrongdoings" they have done just for existing as a babyfur.
I truly don't understand because furries have been harassed over the years and their response is always "Well, some of the fandom is cringe, but not all of it!" even when a majority of the furry fandom is iffy, but that doesn't stop furries and they are always talking about how they don't like hating people for no reason, etc etc. But then the second the word babyfur is mentioned they say all babyfurs are pedophiles, into pissing, and shitting, and all of this stuff that in NO WAY is directly relating to the word. That's like me saying "All furries are zoo's", but that's just not true.
For a community, that talks about acceptance and all, they sure don't bother to accept anything that looks kind of weird to them. I've been talking on this site for a while, and all of you are so nice and have helped me through tough things that I couldn't talk to people outside of here about, and it makes me so angry when people start shitting on all babyfurs just for existing, and make up all of these "wrongdoings" they have done just for existing as a babyfur.
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