Infantilism and pornography

[dogboy]

As everyone here knows, I'm into elephants in diapers porn. Foolishly I posted a lot of pictures of me and my elephant, Blimpo, with Blimpo diapered and me feeding Blimpo from a baby bottle, Blimpo in her crib, Blimpo playing with alphabet blocks, which each one weighing 850 pounds. Well, it became very popular as a lot of people are turned on by elephants in diapers porn and soon the Feds tracked me down. Now, I'm prohibited from going to zoos. Any zoo. Even petting zoos!!!

Some people get turned on by the niches. There are some who enjoy wearing diapers who also get off on exhibitionism and the idea of shame and humiliation. Tumblr is their medium I guess. Most of us don't want to bet banned from zoos or by society, where we work, where we socialize. So most of us such as myself, keep it behind closed doors, elephants and all. But there are those who are out and Tumblr and internet sites give them that opportunity. I think they also enjoy their 15 minutes of dubious fame.

So the solution is, if it's not your thing, don't go there. I accept that those who are over the top make it a lot more difficult for the rest of us to be accepted, but I think most of us don't try for acceptance except in limited cases. Sometimes it's all about social survival.

 

[littlemoosey]

As everyone here knows, I'm into elephants in diapers porn. Foolishly I posted a lot of pictures of me and my elephant, Blimpo, with Blimpo diapered and me feeding Blimpo from a baby bottle, Blimpo in her crib, Blimpo playing with alphabet blocks, which each one weighing 850 pounds. Well, it became very popular as a lot of people are turned on by elephants in diapers porn and soon the Feds tracked me down. Now, I'm prohibited from going to zoos. Any zoo. Even petting zoos!!!

Dogboy, for the first time on this thread I am laughing.

 

[Feyranna]

I don't watch a lot of porn so maybe I've missed the ones you're talking about. It wouldn't be abdl porn if it has actual children in it so no it's not pedophilia and doesn't hurt anything. The great thing about it is, if you don't like it, turn it off. You don't get to enforce your idea of what is and isn't "okay abdl" on other consenting adults.

 

[KSABDL]

I'm not sure I follow the OP either. Even though I don't watch porn anymore, I exclusively watched DL porn when I did. There was one time when I watched a girl jacking off in a diaper while she was regressed, and hearing her in her regressed state while masturbating really got me confused. I didn't like it at all.

I've always only watched videos of girls in diapers and using them. I've never been turned on by the AB side of things. I think the OP is saying that watching someone doing what I described about the regressed girl is deplorable. And as far as that goes idk. I would assume that most everyone here watching a regressed adult person do regressed things and getting his/her rocks off like that, is not evidence that it would give a mutual feeling if they were watching a minor. I could understand how ABism is associated with submission.

Whatever, I really don't know. I don't know how a sexual AB person's brain is wired. I would say that if there is any implication of one being turned on by a minor, that that individual go and seek some help. That's all we can really do.

But the third party, the non-ABDL world, when confronted with the idea that someone might get turned on by AB porn, would be much, much harder to convince that it isn't about pedophilia. OP is basically asking AB-porn watchers to not do that, and THAT requires a degree of self control that a lot of us realized a long time ago is damn near impossible in any aspect of this fetish.

So my answer to OP is, unless the grace of God allows us not to be stimulated by AB or DL porn or any such thing (I tried to resist my fetish after my baptism, and though I miraculously have no desire to watch porn, I 100% do still have this fetish), then...sorry. Unless you have issue with yourself, you cannot stop your own desires, especially when every one of your addictive and forbidden fantasies can be fulfilled with a few keystrokes.

Totally agree to your post that it is damn near impossible. When I outed myself to my wife, naturally she immediately went and googled AB and DL and low and behold a woman topless in a diaper obviously regressed masturbating in a wet diaper popped up.

So here I was trying to calm her down because she thought I was into that kind of thing. As many poster's have noticed this was something that I looked into in my early years pre-marital DL, and often find the urge to go back to it. My wife and I have a great understanding and trust that we do this stuff together or not at all. I respect that.

In the end I recognize that we can not affect the decisions of another, I simply am saying, if this is what your sig. other first observed when find out about your fetish, you will be hard pressed to explain yourself, in some circumstances.

 

[dogboy]

Totally agree to your post that it is damn near impossible. When I outed myself to my wife, naturally she immediately went and googled AB and DL and low and behold a woman topless in a diaper obviously regressed masturbating in a wet diaper popped up.

So here I was trying to calm her down because she thought I was into that kind of thing. As many poster's have noticed this was something that I looked into in my early years pre-marital DL, and often find the urge to go back to it. My wife and I have a great understanding and trust that we do this stuff together or not at all. I respect that.

In the end I recognize that we can not affect the decisions of another, I simply am saying, if this is what your sig. other first observed when find out about your fetish, you will be hard pressed to explain yourself, in some circumstances.

Actually, I think this statement expresses your concerns more accurately and I understand that concern. There are times, especially when we are coming out to our SO, that we don't need the really weird side of this to be thrown at us. It's only natural that a spouse, once aware of this, would go to Google to find out more. There are some really great sites to explain who we are and what we feel, and then there's Tumblr and far worse sites, which doesn't help the specific cause of, "hey we're really normal. We just have a need to do this one thing: wear and use diapers."

And as you may have guessed, I don't really have an elephant. I have a wonderful golden retriever and she would laugh at me if I put her in diapers.

 

[OmiOMy]

Will I be judged if I ask what's so bad about Tumblr? There are a few subsites that have some awesome content. Maybe I haven't delved far enough into that rabbit hole. Don't plan on going back anyways.

I have several SFW (I run several aesthetic blogs, a photography blog, and a tarot blog), one NSFW blog, and one diary type blog where I navigate getting used to needing diapers and fighting my body's insistence on dropping the control it has. Tumblr is an interesting platform in that literally anything short of CP goes, and there are no blocks to posting content. Because of this, people can and will post anything. But you can curate your experience by controlling what you follow, like, and block. It really isn't the den of chaos everyone makes it out to be but because it's so free, there's just A LOT to run into.

 

[littlemoosey]

And as you may have guessed, I don't really have an elephant. I have a wonderful golden retriever and she would laugh at me if I put her in diapers.

Dogboy, now all the pieces of the AB/DL cosmic puzzle have come together, it's 'DOGBOY" not "Elephantboy", this is why I am not a detective! Although disappointed, I'm glad you came clean. Although I will miss that elephant dynamic that you so vividly painted in my head.

 

[OmiOMy]

I see. I guess I just went to the cleaner sites than what is apparently out there. I've never run into anything particularly risque...relatively speaking. I'm sure a lot of vanilla people would consider diaper porn hella risque.

Yeah, the vanilla set would think anything involving diapers is hella out there. Heck, it used to get an eyebrow raised from me—until it got an "aw that's cute." Not sure what changed but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[littlemoosey]

I have several SFW (I run several aesthetic blogs, a photography blog, and a tarot blog), one NSFW blog, and one diary type blog where I navigate getting used to needing diapers and fighting my body's insistence on dropping the control it has. Tumblr is an interesting platform in that literally anything short of CP goes, and there are no blocks to posting content. Because of this, people can and will post anything. But you can curate your experience by controlling what you follow, like, and block. It really isn't the den of chaos everyone makes it out to be but because it's so free, there's just A LOT to run into.

NSFW, CP ?

I think that I just figured out CP, but NSFW?

 

[OmiOMy]

NSFW, CP ?

I think that I just figured out CP, but NSFW?

Not Safe For Work. Typically used for smut or kink content.

 

[littlemoosey]

Not Safe For Work.

Got'cha, I never would have figured that one out. Thankyou.

It seems that really nothing is SFW anymore unless it is professionally related. At my company the INTERNET use policy is as tight as it could be. Although they do not go looking to nail you, I am sure that they could use anything at all regarding the internet if they don't like you. And fire you based on the internet usage policy regardless of the original transgression.

I have often wondered this though. Lets say some grunt underling gets canned as a "violation" of the policy. How hard would it be for his/her attorney to subpoena the internet usage of say 100 higher up's to use as a basis of comparison.

For instance; "Your honor I present exhibit, "A" as you can see Joe Blow, Vice President of widgets, has regularly been perusing ELEPHANTS IN DIAPERS porn (EDP) {Thanx Dogboy, I'll never get this visual out of my head}. As you can see the Vice President of widgets still has a job, as do 80 of these other employees." "Therefore, why your honor is my client being persecuted for EBITT (English Bulldogs in TuTu's)?

I am not advocating surfing anything not work related although we all know it happens. But, equally applied how can they make these policies stick to one employee and not all others?

I know I am straying from the original topic, but always wondered now that the more exotic acronyms are appearing.

 

[CookieMonstah]

I watch porn and read infantilism stories. But it's all 18+ and that's what I like more the fact that it's a grown adult acting like a baby. Nothing to do with actual children.

 

[Felix]

It is clear that the OP is under many false impressions about the community. The term AB/DL includes both individuals interested in Infantilism as well as individuals interested in the sexual or tactile side of diapers.

If you cannot tolerate individuals in the community that are different from you, then perhaps you should reevaluate your involvement in the community.

This is a support community, not a place to judge others, or to make ignorant claims about others.

 

[dogboy]

Will I be judged if I ask what's so bad about Tumblr? There are a few subsites that have some awesome content. Maybe I haven't delved far enough into that rabbit hole. Don't plan on going back anyways.

There's some weird stuff on Tumblr, maybe linked to Tumblr. It gets interesting when one ventures into diaper bondage. Some of the pictures look like they're from the movie "Pulp Fiction", only very naked and exposed.