- Messages
- 403
- Age
- 38
- Role
- Incontinent
Dating has always been hard for me. Especially when I try to keep my secret. Eventually I would stop seeing a girl. Sometimes they wondered what the problem was. Why? Because I have to wear a diaper. School was challenging enough. Whether you are a boy or a girl, having to wear diapers complicates dating. The few times I dated someone, either they would giggle or laugh and sometimes ridicule. After a while I just stopped dating. I do have some close friends, men and women. Some of them know my secret. Other suspect and some of them don't know. When they found out that I wear diapers it didn't stop being my friend. Most adults are mature enough to understand that I have medical issue. They know I'm still smart and funny despite being incontinent.
So what's my problem? Was I a virgin? No. I had one relationship in college. It wasn't serious and she eventually went back to California. She didn't have a problem with being incontinent. But I did have a few girlfriends that when they knew they laughed and that was the end of that. All of my friends, female or male, urge me to try dating.
They tell me that most people don't care. I don't think so. I think they care. Especially when they know, they (girlfriends) don't want to deal with someone who needs to wear a diaper. The few close female friends are rare. Only one decided to be my girlfriend. I'm not lonely. Plenty of friends. My job is fun and interesting. But I have a problem
getting a girlfriend. Tell me how it worked for them. Easy or difficult? Laughed at or ridiculed? Are you still running solo? I know it's not easy. Just trying.
So what's my problem? Was I a virgin? No. I had one relationship in college. It wasn't serious and she eventually went back to California. She didn't have a problem with being incontinent. But I did have a few girlfriends that when they knew they laughed and that was the end of that. All of my friends, female or male, urge me to try dating.
They tell me that most people don't care. I don't think so. I think they care. Especially when they know, they (girlfriends) don't want to deal with someone who needs to wear a diaper. The few close female friends are rare. Only one decided to be my girlfriend. I'm not lonely. Plenty of friends. My job is fun and interesting. But I have a problem
getting a girlfriend. Tell me how it worked for them. Easy or difficult? Laughed at or ridiculed? Are you still running solo? I know it's not easy. Just trying.