It does matter where about you are from (country). Online searches and vendors are a great resource. here in the states there are quite few retailers you can purchase from and have shipped to your home. You can get samples, bags, and cases. the more to purchase usually more cost affective. there are many different diapers from ABDL style to medical style. Being new and not much experience wearing try samples first to see what you like and works best for you. For medical style and some printed diapers check out LL Medico (free shipping great prices), NorthShore, and Changing Times Diaper Company (a combination of both styles). If you are looking for ABDL style (printed and plain) Tykables, Rearz, and ABU are the top vendors. For samples and single packs check out Wearing Clouds. Amazon carries many of the various diapers on the market.