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How many daddies out there babysit abdls boy without something in return, but do it just to care for an abdl boy? I don't want to sound greedy with the idea, but don't know a better way to say it. ☺️
 
I think if I knew the person I would be babysitting, I would definitively do it. However if it's a complete stranger I would need to develop a personal relationship before we just jump into things to make sure I know what I'm getting into.
 
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BlurpleWagz said:
I think if I knew the person I would be babysitting, I would definitively do it. However if it's a complete stranger I would need to develop a personal relationship before we just jump into things to make sure I know what I'm getting into.
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Ain't that the truth, guess it'd be scary for both sides of the coin.
 
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Ain't that the truth, guess it'd be scary for both sides of the coin.
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Yeah, don’t forget that while we may be cute and cuddly littles, we are still adults, and from the point of view of someone who might not know us we could easily overpower them or cause physical harm.

And god knows there are people in our community who don’t behave in the most appropriate or respectful ways, I don’t like to just call these people creeps as I believe that quite often people behave this way due to a lack of socialisation, but they still need to know when they are in the wrong.

Caregivers, who are genuinely loving and caring, are absolute gifts and littles need to care for them just as much by making them comfortable and showing that we safe to be around.

(Sorry this sort of became a rant)

Honestly I fantasise about being parented 24/7 and I love the idea of being babysat whenever my caregiver goes out without me.

But I would want to make sure that I will be safe with them and equally show them that they will be safe with me, too.
 
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AsherDearing said:
Yeah, don’t forget that while we may be cute and cuddly littles, we are still adults, and from the point of view of someone who might not know us we could easily overpower them or cause physical harm.

And god knows there are people in our community who don’t behave in the most appropriate or respectful ways, I don’t like to just call these people creeps as I believe that quite often people behave this way due to a lack of socialisation, but they still need to know when they are in the wrong.

Caregivers, who are genuinely loving and caring, are absolute gifts and littles need to care for them just as much by making them comfortable and showing that we safe to be around.

(Sorry this sort of became a rant)

Honestly I fantasise about being parented 24/7 and I love the idea of being babysat whenever my caregiver goes out without me.

But I would want to make sure that I will be safe with them and equally show them that they will be safe with me, too.
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I agree. Every caregiver has their own boundaries of what they are comfortable with, so it's important to have rules established beforehand. For example, I am not into the sexual side while in a caregiver headspace, and that's an important boundary for me to be comfortable when taking care of a little.

I feel the best way to develop a relationship and build boundaries are group meetups, where everyone can meet each other without any pressure and establish what they are comfortable with. As everyone gets to know each other better, it's a lot easier for babysitting to feel natural since the caregivers are familiar with the littles and know who's a good match. :)
 
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Definitely agree that a potential babysitter should meet the little before any actual babysitting, even if that’s just being invited round for tea or coffee if you know them well enough.

Although if it is a totally new person that you have met through Fetlife or something then meeting at an event would probably be safer for both parties.

Honestly as well, it fills my heart with hope that there are people who would be willing to babysit for free. Actual babysitting for normal babies is very expensive itself and the money that professional ABDL caregivers with there own nursery’s ask for is prohibitive to the point that if you could afford it, it would be only a few times in a lifetime thing.
 
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