I have found that it is a mind set. If you make it a big deal, then it will be one. On the other hand I you determine to live your life then you will adapt. I always start with a plan. Even if it does not always go the way I planned it. Then I can adjust it. Point is you are ready.
The other mind set that I have is, I need them. I don't go out of my way to out my self. However, if someone has a problem with me, then it is more of there problem and less of mine. I don't just say this in regards to my needing to use diapers for my ic, but I am also dyslexic and was in the special education program. People have always tried to tear me down. Yet I would not let them.
One last point, ADISC is a supportive community, you are not alone. I hope this helps. Cheers