I've never had a dream of not being incontinent after nearly 30 years of being incontinent. But I have been having a variation on that theme.
I had a vasectomy at 35. I incurred total ED at 39, at the same time I became incontinent. I had aggressive prostate cancer with surgery and hormone therapy at 54, Recurrent aggressive prostate surgery at 58. Testicular cancer with surgery at 60. I have been widowed for over a dozen years. So sex is the farthest thing from my mind.
A year ago, I started suffering daily from "blue balls" and extreme libido. Very frustrating to feel like a hormone raging teenager when there is no functional plumbing left. I've been going through testing that shows normal testosterone, but elevated FSH (follicle stimulating hormone). FSH controls sperm growth, so elevated FSH means elevated sperm levels, which is the reason for the change. I just had an MRI to check for a pituitary tumor and am waiting for the results.
So, over the past several months I've been having dreams that my I have been going through testing for ED because my ED suddenly got better. Very confusing dreams dealing with very intense/painful erections, only to wake up and realize I'm in actual pain because of retention. Not sure what all is going on physiologically, but the combination is wreaking havoc on my junk and my dreams!
Sorry if this is TMI.