HELP

[hentaisensai]

Have you ever been taught that truth can be much more damaging than lying at times?

Yes, depending on the situation, that can certainly be true. Which is why @lilshelly insintuated that he should steer the conversation based on his relationship with his parents. For example, if his parents are members of the Westboro Baptist Church, it's probably not a great idea to bring up that you embrace a kink that is considered taboo in some circles. Where on the other hand, if his parents are sex positive and understand that everyone has different things that make them "tick", then it might be a productive conversation to just be honest about your interests.

I have tested the thing to be Always honest for the majority of my life and is not a good thing for you or for the other people. and I know that is not a good idea to for his to tell to is mother that I like Diaper even more because she seek to find an addition products in his room. So I really have to explain why it's a bad idea the truth in this case?

While your personal experience is important to you, it isn't indicative of everyone's experience. Responses should be based around his parents beliefs and whether they would be accepting of his lifestyle.

 

[Carnifex]

even if that is the case it still might involve a doctor having to look at him and I don't condone such tactics just for diapers. I also didn't really advise him to tell his parents I simply added that if he did there are resources out there that might help him to deal with his parents. If you read my original post I said that I agreed that it might not be best to tell his parents. Parents are not the most predictable of people. Believe me I had to tell my parents I was not the person they had raised. They were just glad that I was okay.

Also I know that it is not the best option for alot of people but I told my dad several years ago and he was like I am just ashamed that you felt like you could not tell me so I guess I am one of the lucky ones I know it's not always like that

 

[trysexiea]

even if that is the case it still might involve a doctor having to look at him and I don't condone such tactics just for diapers. I also didn't really advise him to tell his parents I simply added that if he did there are resources out there that might help him to deal with his parents. If you read my original post I said that I agreed that it might not be best to tell his parents. Parents are not the most predictable of people. Believe me I had to tell my parents I was not the person they had raised. They were just glad that I was okay.

Effectively for this type of thing you never know you parents even if you think you know them.

Personally I have do the test to be sure and for Reassured my mother (the medical test for this is not non supportable and is not very long, I think is not a very bad idea for people want to use Diaper in 24/7 of doing this test anyway like this you are sure you have any incontinence or other problem related of. you have always the medical secret, so the specialist that do this exam can tell the results to other people than you.

 

[trysexiea]

Yes, depending on the situation, that can certainly be true. Which is why @lilshelly insintuated that he should steer the conversation based on his relationship with his parents. For example, if his parents are members of the Westboro Baptist Church, it's probably not a great idea to bring up that you embrace a kink that is considered taboo in some circles. Where on the other hand, if his parents are sex positive and understand that everyone has different things that make them "tick", then it might be a productive conversation to just be honest about your interests.



While your personal experience is important to you, it isn't indicative of everyone's experience. Responses should be based around his parents beliefs and whether they would be accepting of his lifestyle.

Effectively my experience is related to me but I think if you want to be honest all the time you should have the same result.

 

[trysexiea]

Also I know that it is not the best option for alot of people but I told my dad several years ago and he was like I am just ashamed that you felt like you could not tell me so I guess I am one of the lucky ones I know it's not always like that

You are

 

[Carnifex]

I agree it is not easy but all but a couple of friends know I wear diapers and all except for one none even mention it I told them so they didn't have any thing to use against me if we had a argument none of them cared so honesty worked out

 

[trysexiea]

I agree it is not easy but all but a couple of friends know I wear diapers and all except for one none even mention it I told them so they didn't have any thing to use against me if we had a argument none of them cared so honesty worked out

Friends and parents is very different

 

[Carnifex]

I am just glad that I have a parent and friends who don't care one

 

[Carnifex]

I meant care if I am wearing a diaper they don't say anything

 

[stareegirl]

Tell your mom you're an adult and it's a personal manner for you. Assure her that you don't have a medical problem. You don't want to worry her or waste the doctors time. If she ask questions generalize I doubt she'll wanna hear more. If she makes it a big deal stay away from diapers for a while and be more careful in the future.
I wish you luck

 

[trysexiea]

I meant care if I am wearing a diaper they don't say anything

For what I saw I would say that there is 70% of parents who do not accept, 25% that accept but no more and 5% who can support the idea to be DL.

 

[Carnifex]

For what I saw I would say that there is 70% of parents who do not accept, 25% that accept but no more and 5% who can support the idea to be DL.

It's sad since I don't think that wearing diapers is harmful in any way no matter what reason you are wearing diapers for

 

[trysexiea]

Tell your mom you're an adult and it's a personal manner for you. Assure her that you don't have a medical problem. You don't want to worry her or waste the doctors time. If she ask questions generalize I doubt she'll wanna hear more. If she makes it a big deal stay away from diapers for a while and be more careful in the future.
I wish you luck

Parents don't consider you are an adult if you like in Their house.

 

[trysexiea]

It's sad since I don't think that wearing diapers is harmful in any way no matter what reason you are wearing diapers for

It's the society image problem

 

[Cottontail]

Not really sure where to post this so ill just try here...
My problem is that i were sleeping in a goodnite, but forgot to lock the door, so in the morning when my mom came in with laundry she saw it
She had to hurry to go to work and said we would talk about it when she comes home ...
What should i do???? Pls help, im sure some of you have been in this situation too..

At this point, I suspect my advice would be moot, so... What happened? Hopefully nothing as awful as you were fearing, although the silence isn't a great sign.

Since being a member of an adults-only site implies that you're an adult, hopefully your adultness was taken into consideration by your mom when she was considering her response.

And hopefully she had a good day at work.

Parents don't consider you are an adult if you like in Their house.

Mmmm...

I don't think that's universal. I mean yeah, if you flunk out of school, don't seek a job, and just generally resign yourself to dependence, then it could be argued that your adultness is pretty superficial, and doesn't command much respect. On the other hand, if you're mostly taking care of your own affairs, going to school, saving for your own place, etc., then I would think your parents could respect that.

Usually parents do want you to leave at some point, though. I don't know where the OP is on the path to achieving escape velocity, but that could be a big part of the equation.

 

[stareegirl]

Parents don't consider you are an adult if you like in Their house.

I'd say it depends on the parents perceptions and the rules of the house hold but hey it's worth a try the op night win the argument and it might end badly so once again good luck to the op

 

[Carnifex]

It's the society image problem

I agree even though it would be uncomfortable for at least a couple days I think that everyone who feels like wearing diapers or needing to should be able to openly and nobody should even give it a second thought

 

[trysexiea]

At this point, I suspect my advice would be moot, so... What happened? Hopefully nothing as awful as you were fearing, although the silence isn't a great sign.

Since being a member of an adults-only site implies that you're an adult, hopefully your adultness was taken into consideration by your mom when she was considering her response.

And hopefully she had a good day at work.

You think all people are adult Haha sure

 

[Cottontail]

You think all people are adult Haha sure

What? They're not? But, the rules... {tongue in cheek}

 

[trysexiea]

What? They're not? But, the rules... {tongue in cheek}

Haha