Yup, I've definitely been outed a few times..... One in particular, I remember several years ago when I lived in a condo. Neighbor and I shared a front porch slash entry area. I had received my usual diaper delivery via UPS or FedEx, and the box was sitting in between our two front doors. I was late coming home that night from work, and there was an open box in front of my door. And my Dry 24/7s clearly in view. I didn't know what happened, so I just moved my box inside. About 30 min later, knock knock knock, and it was my neighbor. He asked if I found the box, and I said yes. He explained he had come home and was expecting a box of similar size and just opened it without looking at the label. And mind you, we are friendly neighbors, always talking, had drinks on our balconies several times, we def knew each other. Anywho, he apologized, but asked about the diapers. So I explained. And we had a beer, and talked about it. He had questions. And I was totally honest. And no big deal. But, he did end up telling others in our building. So yeah, it was quite in the open that there was a 30something diaper wearing dude.... It wasn't ever really an issue, but there were times I felt uncomfortable around some of them. Not with my neighbor so much, he apologized, and we were good, and talked often. I moved about a year later......
