Edgewater
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I have near 46 years of experience with my style of being 24/7, U-IC as a result of a car crash and its resulting surgeries! During my short hospital stay, I saw what other like victims of a car crash are left to deal with for a life time. My wearing diapers everyday for the balance of my life is simple. I have it easy and as a result of that knowledge my quality of life is EXCELLENT! I simply clean-up and put on a fresh diaper!! Life is GOOD!!daylight said:Hey all, thanks for your input. In trying to capture and reply to everyone, I think we all compartmentalize or harden ourselves in our challenges as @ltaluv says, and I wonder whether in doing so, I (we) create greater emotional stress swings; am I resistant/raging or accepting? That’s not saying to give in rather, to acknowledge it as part of other issues (@Pino). I guess it is okay to be both.
@Lethdale and everyone, thanks for your comments.
@Pino, no doubt as you have said in the past, there are other more important issues. Yet it takes a disproportionate amount of one’s emotional time. At least it feels like it.
My first time out and about, I was wearing flat baby cloth diapers with Drug Store plastic pants! There was zero question I was waddling and I was wearing a diaper!! Short of the hose and bag, it was all that was available, at that time.
With today's vast assortment of product available, wearing protection that hides under one's clothing with ease! That makes acceptance that much easier!! It is not that you are physically wearing a diaper and a diaper cover that is the issue, it is what you allow your mind to make it into!!! Get over yourself!! Life is way too short!
I understand the shock of becoming IC. I understand the shock it causes when 'life' changes on a point. But, it is only yet another distraction in one's life! Yes, it can be humiliating, embarrassing, belittling of one's self. But, the reality is; life is much greater, far more enjoyable than if it ends and not have enjoying every moment! I have no fear of death and when my turn occurs, I will go onward to a much better place. But, while I am here, I will wake to the joy of yet another day, live this day to its fullest, enjoying my interactions with others and taking a moment to let them know how important they are to me!
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