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Lately, I've seen multiple discussions where ABDLs are getting scammed, or almost scammed, by online "mommies" they met on Facebook, Twitter, Telegram, etc.
Very recent examples:
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Lately, AB/DLs on the internet are being actively targeted by these scammers across many platforms, because AB/DLs are seen by scammers as gullible, lonely men who will be too embarrassed by a "mommy" scam to make a formal complaint/report. They think that if they present themselves as a beautiful woman willing to be your mommy, you'll be so blinded by desire that you won't realize its a scam until its too late.
While we do make a big effort to keep these scammers off of ADISC, bear in mind that most sites don't make anywhere near the effort we do to keep scammers at bay.
Thus, if you're using other sites to interact with an online "mommy" or similar, you're more vulnerable.
You should always be on guard for scams, but when using a place like Facebook, Twitter, Telegram, etc which has effectively no moderation, and where scammers are common, you need to be extra vigilant.
I don't want to see any member of our community fall prey to scammers, even on another platform.
Here's what you need to know:
- 95% of online "mommies" are scammers simply looking to take advantage of lonely ABDL men. Relationships have to be give and take, and if you encounter someone who seems to be exactly what you want, they are probably a scammer just trying to present themselves that way.
- Anyone who asks to see your ID, asks you to send them money, tries to send you money, or starts talking about cryptocurrency, is trying to scam you!
- Be especially on your guard against scammers when you're talking to them on platforms that have little to no moderation or anti-scammer security, like Telegram, Facebook and Reddit. If you start talking to someone and they want to move the conversation to one of those platforms, that's a red flag.
- Scammers usually present themselves as women who are looking for a male adult baby. Real caregivers are rare in the AB/DL community, female caregivers are even rarer, and female caregivers who are happy to act as caregiver without getting anything major in return are rare to the point of being non-existent. If you meet a woman online, especially a beautiful one, who seems interested in babying you, its probably a scam.
- Ultimately, the only way we get scammers to stop targeting the AB/DL communtity is to make the community too hard/resistant a target for scammers. That means that yes, protect yourself for the sake of protecting yourself, but also protect yourself because if you allow yourself to be victimized, you're encouraging them to keep trying to target other people, potentially even people you know.
Very recent examples:
I think i am being scammed.
Okay, I am on telegram and joined a abdl server, And someone messenges me. At first it seems fine, although he doesn't speak that well which isn't really a red flag at first because I have seen a lot of abdl's not speak that well online intentionally, and then I don't go on for a while because I...
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If talking to a mommy who wants ID for your age show this stuff.
Talk to a mommy who wants to see my ID So I have all my info for my ID but my birth name and photo. There would be no reason to see any other part because of that red flag. All she needs to know is what was shown, to see not the child. You can use paint to cut the part out of your ID you do not...
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I got scammed by Mommy
I felt so stupid it was not like want to live with her but wanted to come down and see me . So she asks for some gas money and to fix her tire. She took me for $100 thier should be a place in hell for these people. Don't go on the Facebook group to talk to any daddy or mommy because thier...
www.adisc.org
Lately, AB/DLs on the internet are being actively targeted by these scammers across many platforms, because AB/DLs are seen by scammers as gullible, lonely men who will be too embarrassed by a "mommy" scam to make a formal complaint/report. They think that if they present themselves as a beautiful woman willing to be your mommy, you'll be so blinded by desire that you won't realize its a scam until its too late.
While we do make a big effort to keep these scammers off of ADISC, bear in mind that most sites don't make anywhere near the effort we do to keep scammers at bay.
Thus, if you're using other sites to interact with an online "mommy" or similar, you're more vulnerable.
You should always be on guard for scams, but when using a place like Facebook, Twitter, Telegram, etc which has effectively no moderation, and where scammers are common, you need to be extra vigilant.
I don't want to see any member of our community fall prey to scammers, even on another platform.
Here's what you need to know:
- 95% of online "mommies" are scammers simply looking to take advantage of lonely ABDL men. Relationships have to be give and take, and if you encounter someone who seems to be exactly what you want, they are probably a scammer just trying to present themselves that way.
- Anyone who asks to see your ID, asks you to send them money, tries to send you money, or starts talking about cryptocurrency, is trying to scam you!
- Be especially on your guard against scammers when you're talking to them on platforms that have little to no moderation or anti-scammer security, like Telegram, Facebook and Reddit. If you start talking to someone and they want to move the conversation to one of those platforms, that's a red flag.
- Scammers usually present themselves as women who are looking for a male adult baby. Real caregivers are rare in the AB/DL community, female caregivers are even rarer, and female caregivers who are happy to act as caregiver without getting anything major in return are rare to the point of being non-existent. If you meet a woman online, especially a beautiful one, who seems interested in babying you, its probably a scam.
- Ultimately, the only way we get scammers to stop targeting the AB/DL communtity is to make the community too hard/resistant a target for scammers. That means that yes, protect yourself for the sake of protecting yourself, but also protect yourself because if you allow yourself to be victimized, you're encouraging them to keep trying to target other people, potentially even people you know.