SoakedinTexas
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Former military and current policefurry121 said:Military?
Former military and current policefurry121 said:Military?
are you from minn.?jeffeybug said:My housemate and I were driving to international falls MN A long ride. when we stopped for gas, I got my bag went to the restroom, went back to the truck, and were off again. then he asked did you change your thing? I had to say what and he sees your diaper. So you know?
He sees yes. It's kind of obvious. don't worry about it " I don't care why you wear diapers" We will just coll your thing.
Curious, your wife obviously knows about the diapers. Have you been married long? How did she originally find out? Have you talked about it a lot? How did she come to the conclusion she did not want to see you in them? Sorry for all the questions but I recently told my wife and I am interested how other wives/SO are dealing with âdiapersâ.LittleScotty said:I was working nights last year, went to bed in a nappy and overslept and my wife caught me.
After getting home, I'll get into bed and after about an hour or so my wife will get up and go to work. When she does I'll get up, go to my hidden stash of nappies, put one on and go to bed sleeping for several hours. If I wake and need to pee then I'll obviously wet the nappy and go back to sleep (I've never been able to wake up wet). When I get up I'll either change into a fresh nappy or continue wearing the existing one for several more hours around the house. I will always however change back into normal underwear before my wife gets home.
So I finished work late morning not getting home until 8.45am. My wife had already left for work so I went straight to my stash and put on a Tykables Galactic and climbed into bed. I set my alarm on my phone for 2.30pm and plugged it in to charge, setting it down on the bedside table. I went to sleep but woke about 1130am needing to pee, so I went, looked at the clock then rolled over and went back to sleep.
The next thing I remember was hearing the key in the front door, and then the door open. I looked at the clock... 4.35pm! My phone was dead as although I'd plugged it in to charge I hadn't switched the socket on! My wife then came up the stairs and peered into the bedroom to see if I was awake. Seeing that I was she came in and sat on the end of the bed and asked how my night was. We had a chat about what I'd been up to at work followed by a chat about her day and then she asked if I was getting up. As she was getting changed I just lay there, knowing that all I was wearing was a wet Tykables. After she changed she asked again if I was getting up and probably seeing the look on my face she said "Are you wearing a nappy under there?" I nodded, she then asked "Have you used it?" Again I nodded. Now the ideal situation here (and certainly in my fantasies) would be she offered to change me however I knew this would never be the case. After a pause, and an "Ok" said she said she'd go and make us a coffee and let me sort myself out, before leaving the room quickly clearly not wanting to see me wearing it.
I got up and showered, got dressed and went downstairs putting the wet nappy in the outside bin.
We sat in silence for a bit neither of us wanting to mention what just happened until I then apologised. I have no idea why I did or even what for really, she said it was OK and it was just a surprise as it was the first time I was actually wearing one whist she was at home. She didn't kick up a fuss or anything she just again reiterated she didn't want to see me wearing and she still finds it odd that I enjoy it and can't see how it helps with stress, and anxiety etc.
We've been together for 15 years and married for 5 years. I've always hidden the fact I was a DL from everyone. Last year I ordered a pack of Tykables online and collected from a local pickup point. It's something I do regularly when I'm running low. When she's out the house I then move them to my hiding spot in the attic. On this particular occasion they were in the boot of the car for a few days and she wanted to pop out to the shop so took my car as it was parked in front of hers. She obviously then discovered the parcel, opened it and questioned me when she got home. I had to come clean... I told her it was something I'd always been into. She knew about the issues I had as a child and the fact I wore nappies/pull ups until I was 10 and the reasons behind it as I'd discussed it with her before. I told her that nappies really help with dealing with stress and anxiety and tried to get her to understand but she didn't. I offered to show her some but she refused, she asked lots of questions like how often do I wear them, do I act like a baby, do I wet and poop in them etc. There were a lot of tears but the main issue was the fact I'd hidden it from her so long. She saw it as a huge trust issue and asked if there was anything else I was hiding. She gave me the silent treatment for a few days, it was really awkward. When we discussed it again she told me she loved me maybe I should see a therapist. I told her it was something that was a part of me and had been for so long I don't think it was something that could be "cured". I said I could try and stop but it would be hard as I'd been doing it for so long but ultimately our marriage was more important.SoggyGolfer said:Curious, your wife obviously knows about the diapers. Have you been married long? How did she originally find out? Have you talked about it a lot? How did she come to the conclusion she did not want to see you in them? Sorry for all the questions but I recently told my wife and I am interested how other wives/SO are dealing with âdiapersâ.
Oh my. I bet was tense.MichiganDL89 said:I was wearing a diaper while video chatting one of my friends. I carelessly moved my phone around, and he bluntly asked, "Is that a diaper youâre wearing? Donât lie to me". So I said yes and begged him not to tell, and he never did.
Lol, oh yeah.SoakedinTexas said:Oh my. I bet was tense.
70sPampers said:Three quick stories for me to share:
1) When I was in junior high school, me and a friend were swapping secrets during lunchtime. For some stupid reason, when it was my time to share a secret, I told him that I pop a boner whenever I see or touch diapers. Silence for a few moments. Then, he suddenly burst out laughing, called out my name real loud to the rest of the students and tells everyone within hearing shot that this guy pops a boner over diapers! I was flabbergasted. But oddly enough, only a few other students even looked our way. Nobody approached me afterwards and my friend never brought it up again.
2) When I was in high school, a couple of my sister's really cute friends came to our house and while visiting me in my room, they began horsing around and teasing me by opening all of my dresser drawers, closet doors, and messing with my things, etc (basic silly schoolgirl teasing that happens to boys). I wasn't especially mad at what they were doing at the time (I thought they were cute after all and I took it as flirting so I played along). I ran around the room pretending I was trying to stop them but there were two of them and only one of me. One girl opened the bottom dresser drawer and lo and behold what was there? A small, opened bag of convenience store-sized Huggies (yes, I'm a 70s Pampers boy, but I was trying the new Huggies to see if I liked them or not). Both girls stopped in their tracks and stared at the diapers. They laughed, pointed, and asked, "Why do you have Huggies diapers in your dresser?" Shaking with embarrassment I quickly made up a story on the spot: "Well... I like to... uh... hug them at night so that I can sleep better... kinda like a teddy bear or security blanket, see?" They looked at me for a second as they processed my answer. Then they looked at each other, broke out laughing again, and mockingly replied, "Hug-a-me! Hug-a-me!" This phrase "hug-a-me" (a word-play on the fact that I told them that I "hugged" Huggies at night) became their teasing slogan every time they came over to my house for a month or so afterwards. I was annoyed, but since I thought they were cute and actually liked when they visited I rolled with the teasing, and jokingly replied every time, "Do you need one of my Huggies to sleep with at night? I can get one for you if you wish!" Bottom line: close call, but at least they didn't find out the REAL reason I had Huggies diapers in my dresser.
3) When I was a few months into dating my now current wife, I worked up the boldness to reveal my diaper fetish to her by allowing her to see me wearing an Attends adult diaper. I'm not usually into adult diapers since none of them have diamond-embossed plastics, but I happened to receive this freebie sample from an eBay trade I had made with another diaper collector at the time. So I asked my wife to go out of the room. I stripped down to nothing but that vintage Attends diaper, got under the covers, and then asked her to come back into the room. She came in and I pulled back the covers and sat up in the bed in nothing but a vintage Attends diaper. She looked at me for what seemed like 5 or so minutes, but was probably more like only 30 seconds. She finally broke the silence by smiling and saying, "You look cute." And that was that. I put on some clothes with the diaper still on and we at lunch and watched a movie. She has accepted my fetish ever since. We went on to get married the year after that, and I went on to continue to purchase several more boxes and bags of vintage diapers--to her approval, as long as it was within our budget.
See some of the diapers in my stash at this LINK. I even keep two opened boxes of Pampers with stacked diapers on my nightstand next to my alarm clock--in full view! Not hidden from her or anyone (of course I hide them when folks come to visit). (see attached photos of my actual night stand!
Moral of the story with wives and S/O: tell them right up front, as soon as is convenient. Don't hide your secrets from them. They are more likely to react with positive acceptance and trust if they feel you are not hiding things from them. Yes, I still have a few minor details about my diaper love that I keep to myself because she doesn't want to be bogged down with small specifics, but the major news about me being a diaper lover was revealed to her very early one so that she could make a choice to leave or stay while we were still just boyfriend and girlfriend.
My wife and I have been happily married for over 20 years now! She doesn't participate in my diaper play, but she fully accepts me as a diaper lover and she always allows me to play whenever I want.
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