KenworthW900b
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So I was talking to my 86 year old grandfather this afternoon and he told me that after having a colostomy reversal he's been dealing with both bladder and bowel incontinence which his doctors have assured him is normal after the reversal and will continue to improve but have also warned him that with his upcoming hernia surgery he may need diapers for a year or perhaps more.
He normally does not discuss medical stuff at all but since we almost lost him 2 years ago he's been pretty open about it, I want to help him but I don't really know anything about bowel incontinence and as close as he and I are we've never really discussed my urinary incontinence at all.
What can I do to help him? I don't even know what diapers are good for bowel incontinence since I've very rarely had any sort of issues with that and I'm sure he's just using whatever the drugstore in middle of nowhere Alabama has so I'd like to at least find him some decent products that will work well but also for him to know there is nothing to be ashamed of or fret over AND most importantly that he's not alone.
He normally does not discuss medical stuff at all but since we almost lost him 2 years ago he's been pretty open about it, I want to help him but I don't really know anything about bowel incontinence and as close as he and I are we've never really discussed my urinary incontinence at all.
What can I do to help him? I don't even know what diapers are good for bowel incontinence since I've very rarely had any sort of issues with that and I'm sure he's just using whatever the drugstore in middle of nowhere Alabama has so I'd like to at least find him some decent products that will work well but also for him to know there is nothing to be ashamed of or fret over AND most importantly that he's not alone.