I have issues with my hands (as well as other issues) - not too bad, but bad enough - diapers I could NEVER change myself - so IF I could find a Pull-Up that actually worked, it would be helpful - but none have - they ALWAYS leak.
Fortunately I have never had a problem getting help with a diaper, but a few times I can recall it being awkward (because of the situation and the person) - a few times get something like "Seriously?!" - but never really that big of an issue (perhaps a little explaining, but that's it)
But it HAS to work well - I am IC life-long - something that WILL leak on me is useless - and have tried - lots of times - been pushed in to it a few times (they said "more independence" - and had it not leaked, they would have been right) - but EVERY ONE - NFG!
But that also never prevented anything I keep hearing social life issues - I just never noticed that - I did everything - just that bit of awkwardness now and then - but even have gone on week long camping parties, ex. - Some extra planning - but NEVER stopped anything.
But yes IF I found a good Pull-Up that did not leak on me - lots would be easier, and less awkward, but no real change. Actually I cant see any real change if somehow the nerve causing the IC in the first place were repaired (unlikely) - but would be strange as it has NEVER worked. But point is NEVER excluded from, or avoided ANY social situation due to IC - just in some situations awkward - but I think the one that ended up helping in those situations was more embarrassed than I was (I've ALWAYS been use to it - they were not)
SO - yes a Pull-Up that did not leak would be helpful for those situations - just would not change what I do - socially on other wise. Actually more for the sake of others than myself.
O - getting a bit long - well - I think you got the idea...