LilMaximus
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So, a little history... My family is one messed up live tv drama show... minus the tv part. My father is a Minister and my mother just goes along with him...
Recently they have become more hostile, questioning my every decision. For instance. At the current moment, I am staying with a friend. Well more like his grandparents house. I consider them extended family, because when I lost my truck driving job, they invited me to stay with them. Grow some roots and save up for my own place, car etc. I am very grateful. However, my parents thought my friend was trying to get me into unlawful activities. (Based off looks) They've asked me questions like can you really trust him and so on so forth.
Then my father started late night texting.... (FUN)
Our relationship has been withering away and there is no end in sight.
Fast forward to today. My father send me a very vague text... Apologizing for paying 36K to adopt me and my sister, and putting a roof over our heads. (Followed by) I am done with all this. (Meaning dealing with me)
I wasn't a perfect child and we've had our moments. But this relationship is not good for my mental health. I have anxiety as it is and should not get worried about things as it just gets worse.
I had this long conversation with him and he started to backtrack the moment I mentioned being done putting up with his crap. I know its hard to give advice with only one side of the story but without revealing details this is what I've decided to post.
So my question is this.. Should I follow through with my mindful thinking and stop this harmful relationship or continue down this dark path? I realize that they are parents after all and want me to see the whole picture, but Im getting tired of it.
Whats your input?
Thanks ~MAX~
Recently they have become more hostile, questioning my every decision. For instance. At the current moment, I am staying with a friend. Well more like his grandparents house. I consider them extended family, because when I lost my truck driving job, they invited me to stay with them. Grow some roots and save up for my own place, car etc. I am very grateful. However, my parents thought my friend was trying to get me into unlawful activities. (Based off looks) They've asked me questions like can you really trust him and so on so forth.
Then my father started late night texting.... (FUN)
Our relationship has been withering away and there is no end in sight.
Fast forward to today. My father send me a very vague text... Apologizing for paying 36K to adopt me and my sister, and putting a roof over our heads. (Followed by) I am done with all this. (Meaning dealing with me)
I wasn't a perfect child and we've had our moments. But this relationship is not good for my mental health. I have anxiety as it is and should not get worried about things as it just gets worse.
I had this long conversation with him and he started to backtrack the moment I mentioned being done putting up with his crap. I know its hard to give advice with only one side of the story but without revealing details this is what I've decided to post.
So my question is this.. Should I follow through with my mindful thinking and stop this harmful relationship or continue down this dark path? I realize that they are parents after all and want me to see the whole picture, but Im getting tired of it.
Whats your input?
Thanks ~MAX~