0221nappie81 said:
How did you meet someone like that that is open minded ? I haven't seen any classifieds on here unless there is I haven't leveled up enough.
Is there "Craigslist" for ADBL's ?
Well, the first was my wife, with absolutely beautiful breasts. There was no real encouragement required.
I've had a series of babysitters over the past 30 years. After quite a few 'normal' babysitting sessions, five of them offered to breastfeed me at various times.
The first was a young woman with whom I worked; I approached her about babysitting me and she was intrigued. She'd never had children and wanted to see what a 'nursing relationship' was like.
The second was a nurse who babysat me for a couple of years; toward the end of one babysitting session, she said she wanted me 'on her breast.' She clearly enjoyed the experience, but it was never repeated.
The third was a CNA who babysat me for a year or so; she had small children of her own and thought breastfeeding me during a babysitting session would help me relax. Again, this was never repeated.
The fourth was a lady with whom I developed a close friendship. She was more into D/s than adult baby play, but she did babysit me on occasion. She pulled me across her lap one day and opened her top; I remember this episode quite clearly because she had incredibly large nipples that felt absolutely wonderful in my mouth. She had breastfed her two children, so maybe that helped.
And the fifth was my current nanny, who offered one day and - because I was receptive - even bought a nursing bra to wear when she babysits me.
I don't think any of them were particularly 'open minded' until they knew me quite well. I think that's the key; you have to work hard to develop a genuine friendship first. I've never tried recruiting a caregiver via the internet; they've all been friends at some level. I know from firsthand experience that unless the lady has previous adult carer experience, the learning curve is quite steep. Once someone becomes fairly adept at caring for you, an interest in breastfeeding may follow ... or may not, depending on the lady involved. The element of trust is a key factor; each of these ladies knew I had no interest in a sexual relationship with them, and that may have inclined them to be more 'forthcoming' with respect to breastfeeding me.