cm90210
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Hi, I’m a DL with a history of adult nocturnal enuresis. It went away for several years but I just recently have had a few episodes where I woke up wet. I am traveling for business in the next couple of weeks, and have the opportunity to hang out and share a hotel room with an old friend from school. Money is tight for both of us, and we rarely get the chance to spend time together with family, kids, living in different parts of the country etc.
I already had my own place booked at a different hotel, but his is nicer and it would save both of us some coin if we paired up.
Anyways, I am wondering what the etiquette is regarding talking about these kinds of issues on a business trip or other roommate situation?
I don’t know if I will have any issue while on this trip, and of course I can’t think of a super tangible way that it would even affect him if I did! If I were staying alone, I would probably wear a diaper or for both protection and because I like them, without thinking about it. But in this case, it gives me pause. Notably, this friend is one of the few people in the world who knows about my ABDL side. He was and has been always very accepting of me.
Anyways, what are your thoughts on this? Or should I not say anything at all and just be super discrete, and prepare to be nonchalant and and dismissive if something were to come up? Should I call him up ahead of time and tell him about the issue and give him the opportunity to opt out of our plan? What language would you use for such a conversation? Is there another option that I am not seeing here? What do you all tend to do when you travel for business, Or even for pleasure and end up in close quarters.?
I already had my own place booked at a different hotel, but his is nicer and it would save both of us some coin if we paired up.
Anyways, I am wondering what the etiquette is regarding talking about these kinds of issues on a business trip or other roommate situation?
I don’t know if I will have any issue while on this trip, and of course I can’t think of a super tangible way that it would even affect him if I did! If I were staying alone, I would probably wear a diaper or for both protection and because I like them, without thinking about it. But in this case, it gives me pause. Notably, this friend is one of the few people in the world who knows about my ABDL side. He was and has been always very accepting of me.
Anyways, what are your thoughts on this? Or should I not say anything at all and just be super discrete, and prepare to be nonchalant and and dismissive if something were to come up? Should I call him up ahead of time and tell him about the issue and give him the opportunity to opt out of our plan? What language would you use for such a conversation? Is there another option that I am not seeing here? What do you all tend to do when you travel for business, Or even for pleasure and end up in close quarters.?