BrittanyJ said:Thanks for all the responses! It’s much appreciated.
To answer a few questions, yes we have seeked help from an Urologist and other specialists. They have all said that it does not appear that he has any serious health issues. I just learned that he has had some bed wetting issues steming back from when he was a kid.
It was suggested that he try some medications but after having a long talk about it, he decided he will just continue to wear protection at night since it doesn’t happen that often. He told me that he actually finds his protective pants to be comfortable. Not to mention, he’s not a big fan of taking medication for anything at all.
I agreed with him since I really don’t seem the harm in him wearing protection at night.
As for being a “troll”, I promise I’m not. This is just one of the sites I stumbled upon while googling when researching and looking for support. I posted on a marriage advise site but most of the responses were very negative and made me feel like I was in the wrong for even suggesting diapers as a solution, so I thought this site would be more appropriate?
Thanks again for the responses!
Hi BrittanyJ,
You seem like a very supportive spouse and he is lucky to have you in his corner like this.
As a longtime bedwetter myself (I am 34 years old and have been having accidents since I was 14), I find diapers to be much more comfortable than leaks and wet beds. If he is genuinely open to the idea of pull ups, it seems as though he would be open to the idea of a tab style diaper. I know for me, I tried pull ups and they didn't work for how much I voided at night. Diapers made the most sense.
In your previous post, you mentioned "I think he actually looks cute in them. Oddly enough, I feel like it has brought us closer together and I like taking care of him." Bedwetting aside, perhaps the ABDL lifestyle may be worth exploring in your relationship. Seems like you enjoy him wearing diapers and it doesn't seem like he has any hangups about them. I started with a medical need for them, and gradually started to enjoy them. Now, I can't imagine not wearing diapers. Food for thought... and welcome to this community