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    Relationship advice as a DL!

    She needed antidepressants some years back, and came off them accordingly. She was then fine for a good while. Both of these instances happened before we even met. She is happy to be referred to a psychiatrist, and for the first time someone is in agreement in the medical profession that this is...
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    Relationship advice as a DL!

    Thanks for your responses. It's a frightening situation to be in. To reaffirm, the doctor she saw was a GP (general practice), the first line of treatment in the UK. It was here she was refused medication or referral and instead persuaded to get away from me. I have no idea what was said during...
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    Relationship advice as a DL!

    Right, she visited the doctor today and after a clear explanation of the situation, she was told that she's in an abusive relationship! The doctor refused to refer her or issue any antidepressant prescription, instead advising she gets away from me. My 'partner' came back to the house in tears...
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    Relationship advice as a DL!

    After a volatile couple of months, I brought the relationship to an end last week. Whilst moving her stuff out, there was a mutual moment of raw emotion and we cried in each others arms. For the first time I could see genuine empathy and sadness from her, she was genuinely remorseful for the...
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    Relationship advice as a DL!

    She has been staying at a friends for a couple days after I told her it's over. It isn't properly over, there are talks ongoing between us to see if we can resolve what we need to resolve or not. Today she has said if I wanted to be 24/7 she's ok with it, said I'll I had to do was say so. This...
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    Relationship advice as a DL!

    Yesterday we had another argument that descended from the issue the day previous (her screaming about how she doesn't want a DL). She has not denied saying this, but has deflected and tried saying that's not what she meant, and told me that it's my fault that she has an increased anxiety about...
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    Relationship advice as a DL!

    That's not brutal at all Jambieboy, don't worry. I need an honest assessment from outside of this relationship, because frankly I'm too emotionally involved to work out what's up and what's down now. I found her via the kink, but we genuinely connected. As much as I contacted her for 'that...
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    Relationship advice as a DL!

    So, she came back the following day, and after realising I was quite serious about breaking up she more or less changed tactic and allowed me to sit down and discuss it all without her raising her voice, getting defensive or going on the attack. She told me she was comfortable with my diaps...
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    Relationship advice as a DL!

    Thanks for your replies so far guys. I hope I can give a little more insight, and an update to the current situation. Since we got together, she has actually engaged in diaper sex, put them on me and embraced (for a very short time) all of the kinks I have. The issue is her constantly changing...
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    Relationship advice as a DL!

    Hi all, I'm sorry, I haven't posted for over two years. My life has changed dramatically since, and as a consequence of my newfound kink I ended a long term relationship (5 years), and begun a new one. I'm looking for some advice and direction, maybe even someone to tell me that I'm actually...
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    Depend diapers / nappies - New member!

    Hey all, After a little lurking I thought I'd join up as I have specific question that you might be able to answer for me! First off, a little about myself - I'm from Southern England, in a relationship and my girlfriend and I have been experimenting with dl play for the past month or so. Its...
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