Betterdry is a great diaper. Body shape and usage determine what works best. You need a sample to check on size and fit and a package to see if they work for you. Then you can get a case.
I’ve always had an oral fixation and started using a nightly pacifier two years before I got into diapers on a steady basis. Everyone has their own level of comfort. Some enjoy pooping, I don’t. One day I will do errands with an over ripe banana in my diaper to simulate poop.
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Correct. His shrew wife never called him by his given name, only “Rumpole”. He always quoted the old poets to make his point. I have the book “Rumpole of the Bailey” and someday I will read it.
I had that problem also, even when I was an adult. I was alway treated like I was five years old.
You can tell her to mind her own business but that will probably cause more problems.
Can you claim a medical issue?
I use a light chain attached to a bent paper clip to zip up my dresses and jumpsuits. The original cord broke so I replaced it with the chain. The paper clip is from when I first got my own apartment 49 years ago.