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    Were you spanked as a child

    I was spanked as a kid. I don’t think this has contributed to my little space in any positive way. In fact getting spanked as punishment now is a very fine line because it can go from totally ok to triggering PTSD very quickly if not done just right. It takes having a care giver that can...
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    Did potty training do this to us?

    For me potty training was not the issue or the tipping point. I grew up in a large family and was the middle child. My mom has told me that when I was a baby It was like her favorite time. She was in a really good place and just took the time to really enjoy me being a baby. So I had lots of...
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    Does anyone else feel like their Little self is their "true" self?

    So I would say yes to that. My little side is where I VC am most happy and comfy. But for me I am in a constant flip flop. One second I am being little but then I have to go do something adult like scoop the litter. I don’t come fully out of little space to do that but it is just second nature...
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    Anxiety about sleep

    Well I was trying to stay more impartial hence why I didn’t start off with oh this is my friend and used language such as “the poster.” I have gotten to know the poster over the last few months and have talked about this topic with them. So first off I am not assuming anything. They never said...
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    Anxiety about sleep

    First off as a fellow have trouble with sleep person, just because you are told a technique does not mean it will work. I have been give a million techniques to try for sleeping yet none have worked. Just because you have anxiety or fear about something does mean it affects your sleeping. The...
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    How can you afford it?! (Fecal incontinence)

    First off I would say buy in bulk if you can. Save an buy a case if you can that way cheaper per diaper. Also if you mess often then maybe look into cheaper diapers. Not sure if your medical situation regarding incontinence so making suggestions is hard. But there are things you can do to help...
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    Searching for a Tailor

    ]I run an etsy shop that is for custom AB clothing. I do everything custom from fabric to length and all the things you want added. Prices vary depending on the item. They are going to be more expensive than if you were to buy a premade one, but you will be getting a really good quality...
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    Paci questions

    I have seen the Adult pacifier .com pacifiers and I have only heard good things about them. I would say go with that one. I am hoping to get one myself.
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    ABU has engaged a lawsuit of Tykables over their space themed Diaper

    Ok so here are my thoughts on it. First off Tykables did not call their diaper "Space diaper" They named it space cadet. I think that it is a bit wrong to trade mark a word like that. Yes trademark you name for it fine but don't go and try and get the hold on one freaking word. That is just...
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    Favorite ABDL outfits/onesies?

    So I make custom onesies. I have designed it myself and all measurements can be customized. My etsy shop is BinkygirlABcreations. I have about 70 different fabrics you can choose from and I can even do plain colors with custom characters. Here is the link to my shop. More items will be going...
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    So my boyfriend wants to be a little... advice

    So I am both IC and an AB. The inconinence came first and I realized after a couple years that I have been an ab all my life. I started to indulge in it here and there and find out what I liked. My BF is my daddy and we have been together for four years. So having a litte day can be very...
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    Sleep center

    So this is something I never got. Why if you are incontinent do you worry so much about wearing a diaper in these situations. In the medical field they see diapers on an almost daily basis so for the love of all things holy stop worrying so much. Everyone always talks about how society has such...
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    www.baby-pants.com non productive

    Dude It was holiday week many people are out of town. I have ordered from this company for years and they have always had wonderfu customer service. They are very willing to fix their mistakes but on holiday weeks you should kinda automatically assume that response will be slow.
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    still ting to find 3XL adult velcro diaper

    When you have a diaper of that size the price goes up because it takes more materials. The materials to make the diapers are not cheap to buy so that is why they are expensive. Put it this way the waterproof fabric I use to make my diapers cost 15 per yard it take a yard just to make a large...
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    Being Babied As a Path to Healing

    Regression is a good way to heal. In my opinion regressing does not actually heal the wounds it takes you out of those feelings when you are having issues dealing with it. I grew up in a very strict home where my father controlled everything but not in a nurturing way. I was the middle child...
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