After some of my more lengthy times in diapers (weeks at a time) it took a couple of days fro the feeling to go away, and there were a few times where i did forget i wasn't wearing and started to wet only ever on the first day after long term use.
With my extended wearing and diaper training at this point when i have the runs i am going to use my diaper whether i want to or not. I get almost no warning if any and no chance to stop it.
Northshore also has the Go Supreme which is a pull up style diaper line. Not pull up like Always discrete but a full on pull up diaper to the have pull up and tab style diapers.
If I mess in a dry diaper it's because I misjudged my changing time generally. If i feel like i need to go I try and push it off till it happens. I only prefer wet because It feels like wasting a diaper if i mess shortly after changing.