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I still feel this all sound very toxic…
As someone who's been there in different scenarios, it is, but it also isn't. It's a difference of understanding on something, where both wish to do right, but they're unwilling to accept any different point of view.RukTheKansasDiaperLover said:I still feel this all sound very toxic…
That is a difficult situation and I don’t think going tit for tat is the move tbh. Initially my wife didn’t want me ever wearing diapers things can change. Show her respect and have amother discusion at some point. Not saying you are wrong just don’t think it’s the best way.PaddedinHaslet said:First a bit of backstory. So I have been a DL for my whole life. I’m 43 now and have been married for 20 years. I made the mistake of waiting until 10 years after being married before confessing to my wife that I liked wearing and using diapers. She freaked out and almost took the kids and left. Fast forward to 10 years later and while she still hates it, she has given me permission to wear on my alone time. The problem is that I never have alone time because work together and we have kids at home. I will have the rare day off of work where o have the house to myself, but that’s like twice a year.
And here is now my question. My wife loves tattoos and has always known that I do not. Especially on a woman. She knew this going into marriage and she did not have any at the time. Since then, she has got two tattoos against my wishes. Not behind my back, but she basically said I wan one so deal with it. She is now looking to get a 3rd tattoo and im about to lay down a deal saying “if you get a 3rd tattoo knowing that I don’t like them, then I should be free to wear my diapers whenever I want”. Of course, it would only be when appropriate. I will never wear around my kids but I would love to wear to bed sometimes without fear of a flip out. Or if the kids are out of the house for whatever reason and we are alone.
Do you guys recommend this approach? Am I being too petty with the tattoo thing or do I have a right to something I enjoy in exchange for something she enjoys?
I am, and it sounds like it has to do with the view that deriving intentional sexual enjoyment from any source other than your spouse is a sin, ergo, no masturbation. This was a fairly common view among Christians at one time, and one I also hold, but it is largely a matter of personal understanding, as the Scripture doesn't outright say that.Forced said:I’m not religious so can I ask, why are diapers considered a sin in your faith?
Is this Corinthians 13 11 thing where they take Paul's words too farPadPhilosopher said:I am, and it sounds like it has to do with the view that deriving intentional sexual enjoyment from any source other than your spouse is a sin, ergo, no masturbation. This was a fairly common view among Christians at one time, and one I also hold, but it is largely a matter of personal understanding, as the Scripture doesn't outright say that.
I wish my wife had that attitude regarding diapers... My wife absolutely HATES my interests involving diapers, and has gone as far as suggesting i'm a p(you-know-what) for it...messydiaper said:I agree with the "don't do it" answers you've gotten. In my experience, my wife's approach to life is not open to such arguments and I wouldn't try that on her. I like the communication advice and think I would try a wear anyway approach but not bring it up as a topic of discussion.
And to my wife's credit, she says, "It's just a different type of underwear. Get over it!"
I've never heard that passage used that way, but I'm glad you know the Bible!GoodniteQueen said:Is this Corinthians 13 11 thing where they take Paul's words too far
1 Corinthians 13:11 is talking about growing in your walk with Christ... You need to read the whole chapter when your try to understand the meaning of somethingPadPhilosopher said:I've never heard that passage used that way, but I'm glad you know the Bible!
You are correct. If you read 1 Corinthians 13 there is no confusion about what is being taught. If you just read 1 Corinthians 13:11 it would not be a stretch to say AB/DL is unbiblical.UnderTheRadar said:1 Corinthians 13:11 is talking about growing in your walk with Christ... You need to read the whole chapter when your try to understand the meaning of something
A perfect example of this is Isaiah 24:9. When used out of context it is commonly used to tell people, falsely, that it is a sin to drink alcohol... However, when read in it's entirety, Isaiah 24 is clearly a DESCRIPTION of and end times event, not a PRESCRIPTION of how you should live life.
UnderTheRadar said:1 Corinthians 13:11 is talking about growing in your walk with Christ... You need to read the whole chapter when your try to understand the meaning of something
A perfect example of this is Isaiah 24:9. When used out of context it is commonly used to tell people, falsely, that it is a sin to drink alcohol... However, when read in it's entirety, Isaiah 24 is clearly a DESCRIPTION of and end times event, not a PRESCRIPTION of how you should live life.
I was referring to the fact that people use the Bible as some else put it as a proscription rather than a guide and toolGoodnitesAreGoat said:You are correct. If you read 1 Corinthians 13 there is no confusion about what is being taught. If you just read 1 Corinthians 13:11 it would not be a stretch to say AB/DL is unbiblical.
If my wife ever said that to me it would likely cause irreversible damage. I give you credit for your strength and commitment. I hope it was just said in a heat-of-the-moment context and properly apologized for.artemisenterri said:I wish my wife had that attitude regarding diapers... My wife absolutely HATES my interests involving diapers, and has gone as far as suggesting i'm a p(you-know-what) for it...
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