Father ordered NO CONTACT to his Childrens for being in AB/DL Community

[syddiaperguy]

All my life I had been ashamed of my desires to wear diapers.

I whent through constant binge and purge cycles like many in community.

I wanted to be happy in life but there was always this part of me that was ashamed

 

[CrazySmoker]

Was there 24/7 conponent ? - In my case not.

 

[syddiaperguy]

I did some research and the best way I could see moving forward was self acceptance.

My ABDL side was never going away. Best to accept this part of myself and find harmony.

I mostly only wore to bed. My Nappies were always covered

 

[syddiaperguy]

As our relationship went on I wAs getting physically and emotional abused. I would put a diaper on after our kids whent to bed and she would day things like " Your an embarrassment to your family " " You should be ashamed of yourself"

 

[syddiaperguy]

Due to domestic violence my family told me to loice with them as I was being assaultEd both verbally and physically

 

[syddiaperguy]

After we separated for about 8 months I was caring for our children every 2nd / 3rd weekend. I was living on a small farm and Kids loved visiting.

I wanted to settle property my ex and I owned however she refused to talk. I had to engage a lawyer to help with this

 

[syddiaperguy]

However as soon as I started property settlement she refused access to children. Stating I was a risk of harm

 

[syddiaperguy]

She than used ABDL against me

 

[KCA]

For all the "we don't know what happened" people, the case references are Yorke & Saunders [2021] FamCA 426 (23 June 2021) and Saunders & Yorke [2022] FedCFamC1A 54 (13 April 2022) (Not going to link them from here, but your search engine of choice is your friend. As per Australian court practice, the names in the case titles are not the real names of the parties.) For the tl;dr people, the article posted above is reasonably accurate in that the whole thing boiled down to the view of one person that there was a rather vaguely defined risk of psychological harm to the children.

 

[syddiaperguy]

I consulted Dr Rhoda Lipscombe in my case. Dr Lipscombe provided supporting evidence in case but Vanilla trail judge choose to ignore evidence

 

[syddiaperguy]

My current family lawyer has stated no one has ever had NO CONTACT ordered for any case she has presided over

 

[syddiaperguy]

What makes this matter even worse. Refer to order 6 of Orders made by Justice Hannam

My ex's partner was convicted of 50+ charges for purchasing child pornography. The court files were made available to trial judge. Despite this being the case. He is allowed to contact my children as long as my ex is supervising.

This goes to show how unfair and unjust this decision was.

 

[syddiaperguy]

People in Jail get to call and have contact with there children.

I have done nothing wrong. I have never harmed them and would never harm the.

My children absolutely love and adore me as I do them.

 

[Saltedcaramel64]

This sounds like the case of an ex-wife wanting to destroy a man. Yet another reason why I highly recommend disclosing your abdl needs long before marriage. If she can't take it, you need to walk on. Otherwise this could be your future.

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."

@syddiaperguy I am so sorry you have to deal with this type of pain. I absolutely see you as the victim here, and your children. I wish there was something I could do to help you or ease your pain. As a fellow Dad, I can't imagine the pain and rage I would have inside of me after enduring what you are enduring. It's because of women like this that men are the leaders in suicide statistics. If you ever need someone to talk to about this or anything, I'm here for you.

 

[Abdlchriscrinkle]

So glad I never had kids with my ex...
Man oh man I feel bad for people stuck in this situation.
It's crazy what people will do when they've got nothing left to lose, especially being pushed into the proverbial corner with your reputation on the line. Everybody just has to push it to the extreme these days.

 

[CrazySmoker]

This sounds like the case of an ex-wife wanting to destroy a man.

Hell, it really is. I think I ended with some kind of PTSD or something like that. Actually I'm nearly impossible to enter into another serious relation. Kissing frogs is what's the maximum of I can do. May I'll find something better some day...

syddiaperguy, stay strong. Don't give her a gift - I think you know what I mean.

 

[Diaperman95]

What makes this matter even worse. Refer to order 6 of Orders made by Justice Hannam

My ex's partner was convicted of 50+ charges for purchasing child pornography. The court files were made available to trial judge. Despite this being the case. He is allowed to contact my children as long as my ex is supervising.

This goes to show how unfair and unjust this decision was.

I would move heaven and earth to keep a convicted child porn pedifile fromy childern.


As for you, if it is 100% as you stated i can see your point. But if you was posting pics of your self in a diaper online or letting the kids view you in a diaper or lead them to think your fetish is normal part of life then i can see her points too. Fore sure if you was dressing and acting like a baby infront of them drinking from a bottle or eating in a highchair than some5hing is not right.

But as i have stated....to me I do not place any judgement on you or her because i have not heard most or all of bothsides. But i do not see it as a cut and dry subject. There is a lot of grey areas.

I dont think kids need to see parents in their underwear anyway either. Much less a diaper.

But if she is dating a known pedophile than you need to file a protection order and get that asshole away from your kids. PERIOD. like today. It should not be hard if he is convicted on 50 counts. It should also show something about her as a person and how concerned she is with you if she is really willing to date a known pedophile. But the important thing is getting those kids out of a bad house that could hurt them. Even if they have to go to foster care untell your case is done.

 

[Spadon]

Honestly I don't know what to think anymore. I read the article about three times, talked to some people on facebook (and got destroyed...), talked to some people on a site talking bad about @syddiaperguy (and got banned for it...) and now I am here.

Thanks to people not knowing what abdl is and the context behind everything, made this article sound way more worse then it should. If what you said is true then there should still be hope.

The fact that u do not wear them because of sexual reasons (unless I read that wrong) and you did not expose your kids to your diapers (except for the waistband that one time) then she should have ABSOLUTLY no reason to take your kids away.

The judge who took your case did not even do her job correctly in this case. I am sorry for what happend and wish I could something to help.

 

[bobbilly]

There are some viscous women about. Thats a fact. Don't leave yourself vulnerable to them. I'm so happy I'm asexual and don't need men or women in my life. I can go around wearing nappies until my heart is content without judgement or shame. I don't have to hide wearing nappies but all the people who do know think I'm incontinent. I will never out myself (apart from when I did to a few psychologists - which even they said wanting to wear nappies isn't anything to be worried about or be ashamed about)

 

[ShippoFox]

this is horrible. justice is twisted and corrupt all around the world. and this is yet another reason of many that I don't want to have kids. I'm mostly asexual, but I do wish I could have a relationship someday. just without sex. and almost surely without kids.