So for me, overall I find MY diapers more comfy than undies. The softness, warmth, quiet crinkling, and gentle cradling bulk is wonderful!
The main thing is that you have a good quality and proper fitting diaper. When I was mainly wearing Goodnites, I tried some adult diapers I could get in stores and they WERE NOT comfy. I mainly wear Megamax and Abena, and occasionally Tykables and ABU. I also always have Goodnites around since I think they are very comfortable and still fit me perfect, (although more a novelty, since of their limited capacity). I've also been wearing them more as of late due to a tighter budget at the moment. I also don't mind wearing the boys or girls ones, I like the patterns on both. They both are equally comfortable as well. If I use them, the only difference is that the boys ones swell slightly more outward in front vs the girls bulking a little more more between the thighs. My two stores I go to usually run out of the Boys XL when I buy them- or only 1 box left. I usually get a couple of boxes when they have them on sale- obviously other people get that idea too.
I will say that underwear is definitely more comfortable doing anything out in the heat though.
A diaper near capacity is also not comfortable because you get a slight wet feeling. I don't really hold that against diapers though and consider that as a "function" of the diaper because at that point it's a warning that you need to change. It's served it's function to the "fullest" and letting you know.
I will say though, It's not often I completely use my day diaper to complete capacity, but feeling that "wetness warning" is really one of the only things that makes me feel "little" when diapered. When I feel that I'm like Uh-Oh, something has to be done or if I wet again there could be a problem.
Stargazer93 said:
Bikini underwear I find to be most comfortable as certain male parts have room to grow and it is kind of nice to be able to close legs, but diapers are very comfortable when I emotionally need them. And on some days, there is nothing more comfortable than a properly fitting, quality made diaper.
The only underwear I wear is bikini style since about 16. I love the look for my body type (which is still the same since then) and how they feel like nothing, aside from the gentle support they provide. I tried normal boxers once and HATED the looseness and lack of support. In the summer here in Michigan, it gets pretty hot and humid, so I tend to wear underwear when out and about more often than I want to unfortunately. I'm diapered more from fall through spring.