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    would you like to get caught.

    Well, it will depend on the person. It could be mortifying, embarrassing, or exciting. I don't have first hand experience, but I was first person witness to two similar scenarios. Both were hilarious to me and (in a positive / good way) humiliating for the friend of mine.
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    Hello everyone!

    Wonderful that you've made it out of the closet! Hope you can make it to an ageplay convention sometime :) Yes, there are whole hotel take-overs. Prior to March 2020 - they were glorius!
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    Hello everyone!

    Wonderful that you've made it out of the closet! Hope you can make it to an ageplay convention sometime :) Yes, there are whole hotel take-overs. Prior to March 2020 - they were glorius!
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    Diaper nightmares.

    So, I'm not IC - but, as I explained above, to me my ageplay / diaper / little interests to me were a major source of anxiety. To me, they were terrifying. I worried parents, family, friends, work, etc would find out. Which I figure is likely similar to your (lesser) anxiety about someone...
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    Diaper nightmares.

    I don't necessarily want to get all "Freudian" or psycho-analytical in a public thread. But, just going off your original post -- are you terrified that people in real life will find out you wear diapers?
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    Diaper nightmares.

    Well, that's (diaper) shame to me. You let me know what you think of that. For myself, I'm on the other side of that. As in, I've over come the anxiety, fear, or shame in the idea that you carry a "secret". Whether it's just about diapers or ageplay in general. To me your dream (or nightmare...
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    Abdl reins / harness

    Yes, I'd be interested. I went looking for ab / adult sized harnesses this week. What I found was either the autism / child ones or the really expensive leather fetish ones. I'm just not sure how willing or comfortable the Etsy sellers would be (or how expensive it would be) to make an adult...
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    favorite stuffie

    Neat! I'd like to give it a hug :D
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    Hello, newbie here, western NY

    The website told me once that forum posts can only be edited for the first 60 mins after posted.
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    Got a surprise visit while all my baby stuff was out!

    For me, here's the deal. I'm sure he's seen worse. I spent plenty of years embarrassed / ashamed / awkward, whatever you want to call it, about my ageplay or ABDL interests. But, I've stopped doing that because i recognized it was unhealthy for me. Easier said then done. And it took a long...
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    favorite stuffie

    Awwww, is bedtime bear :D ❤️
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    favorite stuffie

    So this isn't a question just for you, but anyone reading this thread. For those of you who have more than one or two stuffies - Do you ever get anxious or nervous about providing enough care and love and affection to all of them? Those who know me, know I have a _very_ large collection of...
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    favorite stuffie

    Mine is Mew - I just got him from Build a Bear! I was so excited to get a mew from Build a Bear :D
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    Illinois

    Good lord. How does anything get done in that kind of temperature? I figure it has to be a bit like anyone living at the South Pole. Where they just have to have supplies to last for 6 months or so to get though the brutal winter.
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    Almost caught

    Seth, sorry to hear. Truly, my heart goes out to you for the situation you're in. It's terrible that there is this trust issue between you and your wife - that she is, maybe, holding the marriage hostage, of sorts. I'm not married. I'm gay. I'm much more a little/ab then a DL. But it took me...
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