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I would like to know how you accept your face, your face shape and size, if you planned or made operations to modify them?
AddyShadows said:I would love to have my face changed a bit, not to mention my body, (In general shape and size of course) Though full on SRS is something I'm not sure about, I would fully love to be able to change the way I look.
AbdlBrian said:I'm actively pursuing Sex Reassignment Surgery (vaginoplasty), Facial Feminization Surgery and Breast Augmentation. It can't happen soon enough and the process is soul crushingly slow.
TheHorrorProf said:While there are things that aren’t “perfect” to me, I don’t struggle with “passing” and haven’t gotten FFS or similar surgeries. Frankly, that stuff often comes across to me now as predatory practices preying on body dysmorphia to convince trans folks they need surgery to fit in a very narrow ideal of what a woman looks like (an ideal that most cis women don’t fit into either).
Coming from someone who has been on HRT for 6+ years, my advise to folks is to just be patient and discuss with a mental health specialist the idea that maybe there are other ways to deal with “original morphology” woes than shelling out five-digit sums for FFS.
trysexiea said:you know there are health risks if you continue HRT all the time. but I guess your endocrinologist (or doctor responsible for hormone treatment) has warned you.
HappyNotHappy said:I’m not sure who you are responding to exactly but I look at my transition and decision to start HRT like this, I was very close to hanging myself, I was laying on my bed in a pool of tears in 2010, I had two choices, #1 hang myself and say bye bye planet earth or #2 transition and let be be. I knew all the health risk, I knew that I’d probably lose a lot and I did, Friends, family, job, etc but I gained the the one thing that had been missing, Me! Now I do realize I very well may be shortening my life span, I could have some health issues as I age but no matter how long I live from now til I take my last breath I have lived longer than I would have had I hung myself that day in April of 2010.
HappyNotHappy said:I’m not sure who you are responding to exactly but I look at my transition and decision to start HRT like this, I was very close to hanging myself, I was laying on my bed in a pool of tears in 2010, I had two choices, #1 hang myself and say bye bye planet earth or #2 transition and let be be. I knew all the health risk, I knew that I’d probably lose a lot and I did, Friends, family, job, etc but I gained the the one thing that had been missing, Me! Now I do realize I very well may be shortening my life span, I could have some health issues as I age but no matter how long I live from now til I take my last breath I have lived longer than I would have had I hung myself that day in April of 2010.
HappyNotHappy said:I hear what you’re saying but many things people do are risky, I’ve been vegan since 2005, don’t drink, smoke or do drugs and I workout 2 hrs a day 5-6 day a week and my grandparents lived into their 90’s. Is taking an androgen blocker that much more risky than an alchoholic, overweight sedentary smoker who never exercises, eats fast food with a history of cancer and heart disease in their family? There are many factors that play into living a long healthy life, some in our control and some out of our control. I would bet even with HRT I am healthier than most.
HappyNotHappy said:Im Happy you are here with us and I find you inspiring when it comes to being your diapered self ... hugs