Diaperman95 said:
Don't let a few assholes ruin this great site for you. Report them when wrong and call them out and invite others to do the same. If the majority of us stand up for each other the minority that is the issue will be forced to grow up or get out. I love the fact we have good moderators for the most part. But they need us to help hold these folks accountable. I am sure more than a few members think I am a asshole and being o am not a AB DL have no place. But I like to stand up for our group and bring g that moo and the team never have to moderate me because I always have the best interest in doing my part to make this into a community of support for the all members. I will always point out if I think someone is doing harm in our wonderful community. Don't give up this one safe spot we have so different than the rest of the net onon the count of a few bad eggs.
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Thankyou. That hit home for me to lose good people over a couple of bad ones. It would be a hard for me to lose this kind forum of people.
I as of lately now I have the tendency to bail when it's twisted because I'm not getting any younger (laughing here), though I'd miss you and so many others. That's the thing. So many quality people are here, and it is a bummer when bad things go on, but it's life no matter where I go. You have a strong point that we should protect the integrity of this forum. Certainly speaking of sadism, etc. is a corrupting subject that regardless of the sex forum, should probably go to a more "severely sexually explicit" forum.
I just fear this forum doesn't do the Frankenstein scene, where all the townspeople ran up to the castle with torches to "kill the evil monster" which wasn't a monster. Just misunderstood. Maybe the corrupted entries here were a misunderstanding? I don't know the references or the person (s) involved.
But I have read weird stuff that wasn't respectful, even in "ABDL criteria",
which made me feel uncomfortable, if not insulted.
I wear for two reasons: Sometimes I really need them for real
, other times, just for fun. But no sexual fantasies.
Although I appreciate individual art
from many here in the form sharing self expression in their diaper world. Many playrooms/bedrooms I saw shared here are very cute and creative. I've seen some baby bedrooms that were most tastefully done, and rather beautiful! Kudos to those creators!!
But I'm not in the least bit interested in blending sexual aspects, violence, or abuse with diapers, not that anything from this thread strictly had to do with that.
So, to each his own here. I fret not.
I enjoyed this thread. It was interesting, and I hope we maintain the respect and composure here that this forum was based on, as being a support forum, for everyone's sake.
I commend those that stand up for things that go wrong here, or anywhere in their life. It's a good way to keep things in check, so long as no tails were stepped on, resulting in a bloody mess.
I know this forum is now and then attacked by haters and misguided individuals that don't understand. That's what irks me a lot. I appreciate those that call them on their behaviors.
Some unknowns have targeted me in the past about odd subject matter thinking I was into whatever they inquired about, asking odd personal questions as though they were writing a thesis (!)
If they only knew how basic, honest, kind, and almost stupidly real I am. I'd hope they'd feel ashamed of themselves. It would be my hope they would. I don't know how to discern honest "pervocities" with a bad-intentioned prankster, though. It's hard to tell.
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