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How true. First, I'd never discuss something so personal, with anyone. Some abdl people here on this forum, they say they "like" to tell others that they wear diapers. These are abdl members, not purely IC. Of course we discuss IC in a private conversation. But in general, most of us are discrete. I actually like abdl people. Unless they start doing something that gives us a bad name.slimjiminy said:Keep in mind that not all people will share their true feelings. They (as adults) may be polite about it, especially since it is an awkward thing to discuss. But back at the bar/bbq or otherwise in private, they may say something less flattering. While the stigma might be reducing somewhat as the demographic ages, it is still there. If you need proof, ask some troublemaking young people about it in the subway (for example).
IC people, at least for me, I don't have a problem to talk about IC or that I need to wear a diaper. But it has to be a personal conversation. Something like this, it's usually a medical question. At that point I'll answer the questions in a way for talking clearly and it's "a matter of fact." To be honest, I rarely get IC questions (unless I'm in a doctor's office). Most adults don't. Unless there is real question. People that like to tell people they wear a diaper, there's no reason. Unless you like telling because you love diapers.
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