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I just posted about diaper cream - but I thought of a related topic - and that is the power of scent as a trigger for a little headspace.
So many memories involving diapers are tied to olfactory elements. Baby powder, diaper cream/ointment, baby lotion, J&J Baby Shampoo, the smell of Pampers, freshly laundered cloth diapers/plastic pants, etc. Perhaps less glamorous is the smell of a wet diaper mixed with the above. These scents are very powerful in invoking memories and feelings - longings of things desired in the past. All of these are tied to "being a baby" - and oh how I wanted (still want) to be a baby/toddler. This has long been the case regarding scent - but only recently have I really acknowledged and leaned into it.
When at home or and environment I can control - I use a lot of scents - namely J&J baby powder and A+D ointment. These scents while being diapered really help me feel little and trigger memories and feelings. It allows me to suspend adulthood far more easily than without them. I really wish Pampers hadn't changed the scent in their wipes. (If memory serves me) I seem to remember wipes having a distinct "powder" scent that didn't quite smell like powder but in the best possible way. I may have found a brand that has a powder scent that I may splurge for at some point due to memories tied to a particular wipe smell. (though if anyone has any leads...let me know!)
I don't mean to be gross - but walking back into the room where you changed and smelling the mixture of wipes, powder, ointment, and used diaper is a very distinct smell that calls back to years of my mom doing daycare or the church nursery or being around family with babies. Very vivid, very specific. I mean, that particular smell you wouldn't want all the time...but occasionally it stands as a reminder of what a baby you are/that you need your diapers. (at least for me)
With all that said - I'm reminded of how scent is a powerful memory anchor - and I am now thinking about how that will play into future little time. I also find myself trying to drum up sensory items from my past. I only share because it's somewhat recent that I would make a concerted effort to focus in on that element...which is kind of shocking it's taken me this long to do that...though I'm grateful for a "fresh" approach.
What scents trigger you (in a good way)?
So many memories involving diapers are tied to olfactory elements. Baby powder, diaper cream/ointment, baby lotion, J&J Baby Shampoo, the smell of Pampers, freshly laundered cloth diapers/plastic pants, etc. Perhaps less glamorous is the smell of a wet diaper mixed with the above. These scents are very powerful in invoking memories and feelings - longings of things desired in the past. All of these are tied to "being a baby" - and oh how I wanted (still want) to be a baby/toddler. This has long been the case regarding scent - but only recently have I really acknowledged and leaned into it.
When at home or and environment I can control - I use a lot of scents - namely J&J baby powder and A+D ointment. These scents while being diapered really help me feel little and trigger memories and feelings. It allows me to suspend adulthood far more easily than without them. I really wish Pampers hadn't changed the scent in their wipes. (If memory serves me) I seem to remember wipes having a distinct "powder" scent that didn't quite smell like powder but in the best possible way. I may have found a brand that has a powder scent that I may splurge for at some point due to memories tied to a particular wipe smell. (though if anyone has any leads...let me know!)
I don't mean to be gross - but walking back into the room where you changed and smelling the mixture of wipes, powder, ointment, and used diaper is a very distinct smell that calls back to years of my mom doing daycare or the church nursery or being around family with babies. Very vivid, very specific. I mean, that particular smell you wouldn't want all the time...but occasionally it stands as a reminder of what a baby you are/that you need your diapers. (at least for me)
With all that said - I'm reminded of how scent is a powerful memory anchor - and I am now thinking about how that will play into future little time. I also find myself trying to drum up sensory items from my past. I only share because it's somewhat recent that I would make a concerted effort to focus in on that element...which is kind of shocking it's taken me this long to do that...though I'm grateful for a "fresh" approach.
What scents trigger you (in a good way)?