Pino
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Yesterday i had my first Medical Service Assessment for "Level of Care", as we call it in Germany. Basically someone, a doctor or a nurse, is coming to your home, asking a ton of questions and looks around. They are sent by the insurance company when you ask for help with care. They decide on the situation if it is possible to get extra help or some benefits.
My wife asked me to make an application for care help, because i did had some really bad days in the last weeks and was really out of order, so i could not take care of myself like i am used to and she had to do much more than usual. So i gave in, even it was an really embarrassing situation, i do not think of myself as "helpless" or in need for care, but the reality is sometimes different, not matter i like to accept that.
I was a little nervous for the visit, but the nurse was really nice and my age. Of course she needs to ask very personal stuff.
The incontinence is a very important point in this. She asked about cause, what kind of diapers or catheters i use, how many, how i deal with it on a daily basis.
I had to confess that when i am in a "crash" i am fully diapers depended. That was hard to say, although i am incontinent now for five years and had a lot of discussions with doctors and nurses about it.
At the end she wanted to see our bathroom and the supplies and medical aids i use. I had to walk in front of her upstairs, i have difficulties with that as well, for POTS mainly. Half the way up i realized my diaper would be very recognizable for her and of course she will see that i am wearing. Never had a thought about that before.
I am not sure i will ever get used to this kind of situations. And most embarrassing, when explaining my different kind of incontinence, i was talking about the "Reflex" type, which happens rarely and that, when lifting up my legs, while already having a slight urge, relaxing my back pain this way, my bladder will loose control.
And i am demonstrating it not thinking about it really and now guess. Right, I peed myself, i am an idiot. I turned red as a tomato, but she just asked the next question.
Very professional i must say, in contrast to me.
No idea what will come out of it. But my wife is pleased and, as all married men know: Happy wife, happy life.
My wife asked me to make an application for care help, because i did had some really bad days in the last weeks and was really out of order, so i could not take care of myself like i am used to and she had to do much more than usual. So i gave in, even it was an really embarrassing situation, i do not think of myself as "helpless" or in need for care, but the reality is sometimes different, not matter i like to accept that.
I was a little nervous for the visit, but the nurse was really nice and my age. Of course she needs to ask very personal stuff.
The incontinence is a very important point in this. She asked about cause, what kind of diapers or catheters i use, how many, how i deal with it on a daily basis.
I had to confess that when i am in a "crash" i am fully diapers depended. That was hard to say, although i am incontinent now for five years and had a lot of discussions with doctors and nurses about it.
At the end she wanted to see our bathroom and the supplies and medical aids i use. I had to walk in front of her upstairs, i have difficulties with that as well, for POTS mainly. Half the way up i realized my diaper would be very recognizable for her and of course she will see that i am wearing. Never had a thought about that before.
I am not sure i will ever get used to this kind of situations. And most embarrassing, when explaining my different kind of incontinence, i was talking about the "Reflex" type, which happens rarely and that, when lifting up my legs, while already having a slight urge, relaxing my back pain this way, my bladder will loose control.
And i am demonstrating it not thinking about it really and now guess. Right, I peed myself, i am an idiot. I turned red as a tomato, but she just asked the next question.
Very professional i must say, in contrast to me.
No idea what will come out of it. But my wife is pleased and, as all married men know: Happy wife, happy life.
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