I've advertizing for a babysitter for acouple months on craigslist.
I have had quite afew replies (alot from African women)
And for the most part they've been able to comprehend my situation and hold a conversation whilst it is being explained.
Several have said we can arrange an introduction meeting in the new year, these are more from the nursing background.
I did meet one woman acouple weeks ago, but it was a non stater, I think she was just after money, ignored everything I'd explained would be required.
I do have one babysitter I'm talking to alot at the moment. I'm really hoping it works out with her.
So I would suggest posting on craigslist.
I wouldn't suggest trying fetlife, that whole site is a waste of time if you're a straight male.
Be prepared to explain your situation, and also be ready for most not following up on their initial reply.