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Since I left college I only have a small group of really good friends. There's only a half dozen of them and of these I consider two of being super great friends. From these 2 only one knows that I'm IC. Of the others, none of them have a clue except one of them probably guess. She hasn't said or asked me and when after she questions me I get really nervous. I'm not sure I'd ever be able to come clean with her.
For these friends we go to diner, movies and hitting the bars beside other events. Only one of them goes camping with me and he knows I'm IC. Having small friends is fun but as you'd expect having to wear diapers is complicated. When ever I go out I'm always in a clean and dry diaper. Without exception I keep an emergency bag in my car. I've only used them a couple of times. Actually I hate using them (changing into a clean diaper) mostly because I don't want to risk asking questions. Most of the time
I can get through it. If I know we're going to be out for an extended period of time, I make sure I'm wearing a good booster along plastic pants over my diaper (Confidry 24/7 or Abena L4). I'll wear some compression shorts under some khaki pants. It's never been an issue.
I always wonder how you handle diapers when you're out with friends. What do you do when your diaper starts to get really wet. Do you just grab your bag and hit a bathroom? Do your friends figure out what's going on? I know my good friend already knows. But I worry about the others. Especially that other girl friend. Or maybe most of your friends already know? Let's face it, going out with friends is tricky. Particularly with her. I refuse to just stay home watching TV all the time. I'm just curious about how you deal with them.
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For these friends we go to diner, movies and hitting the bars beside other events. Only one of them goes camping with me and he knows I'm IC. Having small friends is fun but as you'd expect having to wear diapers is complicated. When ever I go out I'm always in a clean and dry diaper. Without exception I keep an emergency bag in my car. I've only used them a couple of times. Actually I hate using them (changing into a clean diaper) mostly because I don't want to risk asking questions. Most of the time
I can get through it. If I know we're going to be out for an extended period of time, I make sure I'm wearing a good booster along plastic pants over my diaper (Confidry 24/7 or Abena L4). I'll wear some compression shorts under some khaki pants. It's never been an issue.
I always wonder how you handle diapers when you're out with friends. What do you do when your diaper starts to get really wet. Do you just grab your bag and hit a bathroom? Do your friends figure out what's going on? I know my good friend already knows. But I worry about the others. Especially that other girl friend. Or maybe most of your friends already know? Let's face it, going out with friends is tricky. Particularly with her. I refuse to just stay home watching TV all the time. I'm just curious about how you deal with them.
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