When I started to require the use of diapers due to incontinence I responded like the good little trained seal that I am an bought what I had seen advertised on TV. After a few months of this putting a strain on the budget on my fixed income I remember that my wife and I had saved a lot by cloth diapering our children and decided to try that. It’s a bit of sticker shock getting started but after the initial expense it gets much better. The one mistake a lot of folks make with cloth diapers is they don’t wash them several times before actually using them. New cloth diapers come coated with a material called sizing which protects them from stains and dirt during the manufacturing and retail process, and shipping. It also greatly reduces their absorbency until it’s removed. Adding a couple of cups of white vinegar to the initial washing before wearing removes the sizing and fluffs the cotton fibers making them both more absorbent as well as softer. The diaper that I usually wear is a 4/10/4 ply gauze contour that come with a 10 ply gauze soaker. I have some Birdseye and gauze prefolds, but generally also end up using them as soakers. Other times I used folded terry bath towels as soaker. The options for tailoring the absorbency to your need with cloth are almost endless. Some have talked about how uncomfortable cloth diapers are when wet. It never seems that way to me and I’m diapered 24/7. I do use a folded terry hand towel as a liner for easier cleanup so it’s closest to my skin, but it isn’t uncomfortable in my estimation. As for disposables I do use both Abena Abri-Form M-4’s and NorthShore MegaMaxes, both plastic backed, where I’m going to be away from home for an extended period. I’ve worn cheap drugstore brands and the 2 that I’ve mentioned are both far more comfortable than any cheaper disposables, but I still prefer cloth diapers. Cloth varies in softness and comfort depending on the material they’re made from as well. There’s Birdseye, gauze, flannel as well a different materials such as cotton, hemp, bamboo, and man made materials, each with their own degree of comfort. The final thing that I like about cloth diapers is that they require the use of a diaper cover to prevent clothing, bedding, furniture, and other dry surfaces from becoming wetted by wet cloth diapers. This gives me reason to wear my real enjoyment, plastic pants for their actual designed purpose. I hope that a can find something useful in this overuse of words and find a diaper that you can enjoy.