I never really knew about the AB/DL scene until about a year and a half ago, my now ex-bestfriend whom in the past we both talked about our fetishes, in common and not, and she told me she was into ABDL, and I didn't even know what it was until I looked it up, at first I was confused but then she told me I would like it if I tried it, so a few months after she told me I bought a sample pack of 24/7 smalls, and Abena M4, and wore one, didn't bother to take it off for work, and it grew on me, I ordered a bag of Abenas and some other cloth brand, and was hooked. Sadly her and I don't talk anymore, and that kinda brings me out of my mindset of liking ABDL because I cared about her so much, so it's really the only thing left of her I have that remains with me I guess.