I have to adjust my answer a bit. While I would not want to experience such severe bowel urgency, I've come to embrace and own it. And yes, I do enjoy it when in the mood. I was a thumbsucking diapered bedwetter so I do have some ab/dl tendencies. I wore diapers into my early teens and the transition after surgery was not that difficult. There are in fact times when I enjoy the urgency and release along with an enormous volume from the BM (sometimes multiple BM's). Just something about a huge pile in my diapers that I'm quite unable to control for more than a minute or two. Not nearly enough time to remove my diapers and take a seat. In the beginning I did make an effort but often ended up with soiled clothing and a mess in the bathroom. I wouldn't exactly call it simply convenience because a messy clean-up is anything but convenient. Lazy? Hardly. An organized clean-up is much preferable than washing dirty diapers, clothing and having to clean the bathroom. It's simply a matter of accepting the load in my diapers and the subsequent clean-up. That being said, there in in fact a measure of convenience. I often wake to a severe, almost painful urgency. In the beginning I made numerous frustrating efforts to hustle into the bathroom only to suffer an embarrassing mess that were epic. I tired of that rather quickly and decided to simply roll onto my back, raise my knees and release,succumbing to an urgency that is difficult to describe. The relief is a God send and makes facing a clean up acceptable (though never pleasant. Just a fact of life at this point.) I do use several precautions to protect my skin ( a bulk producing fiber supplement - Metamucil) that make my BM's effortless to pass and despite the enormity of volume the stool is well formed and virtually odorless (Nullo). The Metamucil does in fact cause multiple "events" within a few hours so I will remain in my night diapers until I'm realitively certain my bowels are clear. There have been days when I can't seem to stop pooping. On these days I'll often cancel the days schedule and weather the storm. I'm retired ( at 57) so I do enjoy a bit of flexibility when it comes to waiting out those multiple events. I have been surprised at the shear volume of stool but I have problem free BM's and have never had a hemeroid.One learns to embrace whatever positive aspects of severe urgency and simply put up with the more difficult aspects. I've had several serious girlfriend over time and unfortunately most were unable to deal with it. I was lucky to date a registered nurse for several years and was pleasantly surprised at her acceptance. She would sometimes help in diapering and changes but it was all done in a very clinical way with only a little empathy. But there are fond memories of her taking on a mom role that were infrequent but never the less enjoyable. It's amazing how a nurse just gets to it. Fast, attention to detail, an intimate knowledge of how I wear my particular level of protection and from time to time a very empathetic approach. We should all be so lucky. I will admit that she showed considerably less enthusiasm when on the very rare occasion I suffered from loose stool. Like I said, those happened so rarely it was hardly an issue. And with my dislike of such bowel consistency I was anxious to get the clean-up completed as quickly as possible, clinical and business like or not. So while I have experienced thousands of messy diaper episodes, my favorite diaper moments happened from time to time, especially when I was subjected to one of her empathetic diaper checks and changes. She seemed to enjoy feeling and manipulating my obvious bulge prior to changing and asking me if I had loaded my diapers. These instances would qualify as "favorite diaper experiences.