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While I'm still in the process of of accepting myself, what really helped was looking at it for what it is and surrounding myself with supportive friends.
What is ABDL when you really think about it? Enjoying to partake in activities that bring out the younger and more innocent facets of your personality usually yeah?
No actual children are involved, you're not harming yourself, nor are you harming anyone around you. But it makes you happy. Take pride in the fact you found such a healthy outlet for stress.
Diapers are just underwear when you get down to it which just so happen to be conveniently absorbent. They have such a bad stigma because they're a taboo reserved for the young and the elderly. A silly taboo when you think of it especially considering many people need it for medical purposes that don't fall into those age ranges. Would you gripe at a diabetic for checking their blood sugar or giving themselves insulin?
Finding supportive friends is difficult sometimes, but luckily thanks to the internet and places like ADISC, we can rest assured knowing we're not some kind of freak and there are so many more of us out there than we may think. Shoot you might even be living near more ABDLs and not even know it! I was hesitant joining FetLife at first because I thought it was too extreme for me but now I can honestly say I'm glad I joined and started going to munches. I met an absolutely wonderful couple (one of which is a pup/little) and another ABDL close enough for us to hang out in person. Results may vary sure, but if you ever can I urge people to attend munches even if they're not ABDL specific. There's so many absolutely wonderful people that show up who are there to socialize and try to make friends. Even if they're not AB per-say, it's far more likely they're open to and accepting of your little side than you usually find from vanilla circles. L
What is ABDL when you really think about it? Enjoying to partake in activities that bring out the younger and more innocent facets of your personality usually yeah?
No actual children are involved, you're not harming yourself, nor are you harming anyone around you. But it makes you happy. Take pride in the fact you found such a healthy outlet for stress.
Diapers are just underwear when you get down to it which just so happen to be conveniently absorbent. They have such a bad stigma because they're a taboo reserved for the young and the elderly. A silly taboo when you think of it especially considering many people need it for medical purposes that don't fall into those age ranges. Would you gripe at a diabetic for checking their blood sugar or giving themselves insulin?
Finding supportive friends is difficult sometimes, but luckily thanks to the internet and places like ADISC, we can rest assured knowing we're not some kind of freak and there are so many more of us out there than we may think. Shoot you might even be living near more ABDLs and not even know it! I was hesitant joining FetLife at first because I thought it was too extreme for me but now I can honestly say I'm glad I joined and started going to munches. I met an absolutely wonderful couple (one of which is a pup/little) and another ABDL close enough for us to hang out in person. Results may vary sure, but if you ever can I urge people to attend munches even if they're not ABDL specific. There's so many absolutely wonderful people that show up who are there to socialize and try to make friends. Even if they're not AB per-say, it's far more likely they're open to and accepting of your little side than you usually find from vanilla circles. L