josephxylose
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from what I have observed there are a lot more males that are abdl than females. Is there a reason for this, or am I wrong?
josephxylose said:from what I have observed there are a lot more males that are abdl than females. Is there a reason for this, or am I wrong?
Fascinating said:That makes no sense and I don't believe it. I think women just feel more natural and comfortable with themselves and don't feel the need to join the support community.
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dogboy said:Also, a lot of women don't like getting sexually hit on my male creepers, often found on diaper sites, sadly.
AddyShadows said:Honestly I'd say there are probably an equal amount of male to female but I doubt the majority of females need to go onto support sites like this or other things like that or hesitate to because of the overwhelming male population online. Plus I would imagine its very easy for female ab/dls to find someone accepting more so than it is for males thus probably reducing the amount of women who go onto forums and online.
Poofybutt said:Good points. I didn't even think that women might be intimidated to join a community that was predominantly men, but that makes sense, I mean, even I've dealt with some pushy males in the scene.
Is it really easier for women to find willing partners? I always thought that finding a partner as an ABDL would be difficult regardless of gender and sexual orientation, after all, being a big baby is admittedly, a tough sell.
Seems reasonable to me. Way kewl and welcome. Speaking from nearly 6 decades of being bio-male, I'll expand that to bring up that a lot of what's considered Man Cave stuff is trying to impress other guys. Thoughts on lifestyle are pushed away. Sex talk among guys is mostly lying about one's prowess and number of 'conquests' and doesn't seem to wander far from 6th grade to one's 6th decade.LittleAndrea said:Ok, so I am biologically female and I don't know if my opinion helps at all but I can tell you that it is much easier for girls to let out that side of themselves and be accepted without the need of a support group online. I lurked for quite a while before I joined just to make sure that this wasn't just a weird fetish/dating site. I wanted a place to go where I didn't feel like I was alone. I have been accepted by my husband with open arms but sometimes even though you are accepted you don't want to feel like your the only one that feels the way you do.
A lot of my female friends have tendencies but we feel ok to indulge without anyone thinking it's weird. Having a girl driving around with a teddy bear in her car is nothing. You see a guy like that and you might start thinking what is that guy up to. Unfair I know, but societies paranoia is there and we can't stop it.