ClaudTheBear
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Hello again,
I just left a quick intro for myself in the introduction section so this post wouldn't be quite so long and drawn out but I'm hoping to get some insight on something I'm going through.
When I began wearing 24/7 almost 7 years ago, I could not get through any online search on the topic of incontinence or diapers without at least half of it coming up abdl or other fetish related stuff. I quickly developed a deep dislike and distrust for the community. After I joined an online forum much like this one that had both abdl and incontinence section, my dislike for the abdl's went up a few notches after having people tell me I was "lucky to have a reason to wear a diaper".
I finally left that forum for another that is STRICTLY incontinence only and learned a lot and felt much more comfortable. What has changed recently is that I have been looking and trying other products that are flurting with the abdl side of things. After several years of using cloth diapers, I was shopping around for other plastic pants and found some solid color ones from kins. The quality of their pants were so much better then the leak masters I had been using but the only colors they had were blue, red, yellow and white. The colors seemed a bit silly but I got to liking the lighter side of things and not taking it so serious all the time.
A few weeks ago, I got some samples from Northshore of some new product going on line soon. In the samples were the supreme with the new waist band, BetterDry and crinklz. After some internal debate I tried the crinklz and found that while they did nothing for me sexually, but I like the feeling again of making light of the situation. You see, incontinence and more specifically diapers have been such a stress for me, even to the point of having suicidal thought a few years back.
I guess my question is this, how often or how normal is it for someone dealing and living with incontinence turn to the abdl side of things as a way to cope or let off some of the stress that incontinence can bring?
I just left a quick intro for myself in the introduction section so this post wouldn't be quite so long and drawn out but I'm hoping to get some insight on something I'm going through.
When I began wearing 24/7 almost 7 years ago, I could not get through any online search on the topic of incontinence or diapers without at least half of it coming up abdl or other fetish related stuff. I quickly developed a deep dislike and distrust for the community. After I joined an online forum much like this one that had both abdl and incontinence section, my dislike for the abdl's went up a few notches after having people tell me I was "lucky to have a reason to wear a diaper".
I finally left that forum for another that is STRICTLY incontinence only and learned a lot and felt much more comfortable. What has changed recently is that I have been looking and trying other products that are flurting with the abdl side of things. After several years of using cloth diapers, I was shopping around for other plastic pants and found some solid color ones from kins. The quality of their pants were so much better then the leak masters I had been using but the only colors they had were blue, red, yellow and white. The colors seemed a bit silly but I got to liking the lighter side of things and not taking it so serious all the time.
A few weeks ago, I got some samples from Northshore of some new product going on line soon. In the samples were the supreme with the new waist band, BetterDry and crinklz. After some internal debate I tried the crinklz and found that while they did nothing for me sexually, but I like the feeling again of making light of the situation. You see, incontinence and more specifically diapers have been such a stress for me, even to the point of having suicidal thought a few years back.
I guess my question is this, how often or how normal is it for someone dealing and living with incontinence turn to the abdl side of things as a way to cope or let off some of the stress that incontinence can bring?